she's the mother of my nephew and when i confronted her she denies everything but he confessed it to be true i'm so confused i'm not sure who to be mad at or what to do i just feel so betrayed!!
2006-07-21 11:43:07 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Well she is your brother's EX so there is no reason for you to ever talk to her again, so I wouldn't. If you want to stay with your husband then I'd forgive him but he has to want to work at your marriage as much as you and he needs to fully understand that you won't tolerate such behaviour again. You need to communicate with each other to get to the bottom of why he needed the attention of another woman. The reason why I would forgive your husband but not her, is because he just strayed and it could have been ANY woman. That is why it is important to get to the bottom of why he strayed, however, your brother's ex was just downright nasty for doing this as she could of chose any man to sleep with. She's already split with your brother, she should have known better. Your husband should have too but I think it was timing for him. Also, you are spending your life with him. I admire woman (and men) that stay with a partner who cheats. Maybe you will find that through resolving the problems of why the affair happened, you will become happier and closer in your marriage. If this is the case you don't even have to be mad at your brother's ex. It will be clear how irrelavant she is. Good luck. I really hope it all works out for you.
2006-07-21 12:17:54 · answer #1 · answered by applecheeks 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
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2016-12-10 13:14:11 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You poor thing. Give yourself permission to be SERIOUSLY PISSED OFF. What an awful betrayal. I would dump everybody and move to a different city without telling her or your husband. Just don't let your kids see you fight, if you have kids. If you don't have kids, is there anything stopping you from a rapid divorce? No-one deserves that crap.
2006-07-21 17:30:14 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Clean ur house, make a sign thats says: Im a Skank Hoe..put glue on the back. ~Cook the best damn dinner ever, invite ur entire family over for "Sunday" dinner. Then CALL THAT WHORE OUT!!! Grab her face & dunk it in the gravy!! Rip the cloths off of her body as ur kicking her **** out the front door,post the sign on her naked body..and kick her out on the front lawn! Close and lock door behing her!!
2006-07-21 13:35:42 · answer #4 · answered by BooSha 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should kick her ***.Why would your husband lie.Just brake up with your husband,because I am sure he will cheat a gain and tell your brother so he never try to get back with her.And beat the **** out of her.
2006-07-21 11:59:23 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Did you see it happen?
You never know whether someone's telling the truth or not unless you have visible proof.
I'd confront your husband. Threaten to divorce him.
2006-07-21 11:45:30 · answer #6 · answered by omgoddenownerengorgenzownzownorp 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
what was your husbands explanation for doing this? I would think it all depends on what his explanation is... whether you feel like you could still trust him... etc. I wouldn't be around your brother's ex wife though... there's no reason to still have ties with her.
2006-07-21 11:49:29 · answer #7 · answered by beccalecca3 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If it was me i would ask her in front of him and then look at him and have him tell you again then i would beat her *** and tell him he has to earn your trust again and that may take along time to trust him again but if you love him you can work it out . you don't want to cheat on him too wrongs don't make it right
Best of luck to you
2006-07-21 11:49:17 · answer #8 · answered by Billie G 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should be able to trust your husband. Right??? I mean he cheated...but he told you. CHeat on him back, work through it and beat up the *****
2006-07-21 11:48:31 · answer #9 · answered by nicki_wants_to_play 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
BEAT HER A$$.........don't wait for her to confess..he already did.
you don't need to hear her say, "yes, your husband was inside me"
i'd beat her a$$ and then beat his too and get rid of him.
i hate sorry losers like ppl like them
2006-07-21 11:48:22 · answer #10 · answered by Praise the Lord 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋