is this normal for guys?

Question

Please be really honest it takes a real man to be bold and honest. I have nice sexy lips. That's about it. But I'm a bi guy. Well everywhere I go a guy stares at my lips. No, i'm not conceited in fact I don't know what to do. So even in school they stare at them. I'm writing down an assignment and turn up and see a guy staring at me (my lips) and then he turns areound. I go to the store and they all stare at them. Once I heard a guy tell his girlfriend "he has nice lips". Is this normal behavior for guys? Is it normal? would you do the same?. Please I want to know only post if your not going to say something dumb at me. for tips please e-mail me at [e-mail]

please be honest

no i live in chicago. I go to an alternative school

no that was his girlfriend because he's in my school hes been dating her for years

Answer 1

There are over six billion people on earth and over six billion different definitions of normal. If you have a nice feature, just be thankful, that's all. Later you'll be old and your cute lips will be less attractive. For some people it's eyes, for some it's the butt, some people have good hair.
As for me- I'm a good speller. Women love that.

Answer 2

Hard to say, I've never seen your lips. But it (or they) sounds extraordinary. This doesn't sound like normal behavior for straight guys, who are usually so homophobic (or at least pretend to be in front of others).

Are you talking young guys? Maybe young guys don't have the same strict gender lines anymore. Personally, I think a good looking person (or body part, I guess) is just that. I'm not hung up on pretending that guys don't exist. Hot guys are hot guys. And I guess that sexy lips are sexy lips.

Answer 3

I don't know if it's normal for guys but my guy has big sexy lips also and I always compliment him. Why are you looking at it like a bad thing this should be a compliment to you. Plus I know that even guys check out other guys whether they will admit it or not so again think of the positives you have nice lips plus if they are looking at your lips they aren't noticing pimples haha! Good luck!

Answer 4

Nice lips are just sexy, not many people have great lips, they are usually too thin or too large, or too wide, or too small, it sounds like your lips are perfect. Just take it as a compliment if someone admires them, I know I would. Isn't it nice that people think nice things about you. It's not everyday that happens to people. If guys are checking you out though, they might be gay lol. Guys don't usually admire others guys body parts unless they are gay. Women love sexy lips on a guy, be grateful. They are more kissable, more sensual.

Answer 5

I happen to be gay -- so I don't know of what value to you my comment is -- however, I like lips, noses, and eyes very much, particularly with nice hair. Some straight guys can appreciate nice features on other guys -- some can't ---- just like some gay guys can appreciate good features on women -- some (me for example) can't.

I would ask that if you want more detail, please send me a pic so I can see these alleged lips (my direct email is in my signature block). Without that, I've said all I can.

Peace,

Reyn
http://www.rebuff.org
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PS and I do know straight guys who would comment if they liked your lips -- contrary to the scummy bigots.

Answer 6

What are nice lips? I wouldn't know what they look like. To me lips are lips. I have never heard of any woman or man singled out for having great lips. Eyes, yes; boobs, yes; figure, yes; face, yes; muscles, yes; derriere, yes; voice, yes; teeth, yes; smile, yes, but lips? What these men are noticing is not your physical lips but your physiognomy that reveals itself in part through your physical lips. You cannot hide homosexuality. One who practices homosexuality starts wearing it on his face. People notice. They see a pervert and turn away. You think they are interested. A gay man might be interested without a doubt, but many men who see it in your face, notice it, and you misinterpret the look.

Answer 7

I can believe that all people can appreciate some thing nice on anyone. I know you are having it happen alot, but maybe its just b/c you are paying more attention to it now. I wouldn't worry about it. Nice lips are a good thing!!

Answer 8

Do you have a lot of jelly beans?
This could be where the problem is, ignore the hear~say ~ get on with your studies.
That is why you are in school for!
Your future is more important than worrying about what people are implying, you know what is true ~ so why do you let this subject get too you???

Answer 9

hehe I do that..but i don't whisper..I go up 2 the person and b like...u have nice lips...or ur eyes are so cute lol- as for guys...they probably kno ur bi...and there like 1 of the guys on the down low... naw naw..but possible- but it probably is about the fact ur bi- they think it's ok-

Answer 10

Where do you go to school, F@ggot High? I don't know any straight dudes who check out other dudes lips. Maybe it's in your head and you just really want to suck c0ck.