hi, i think my girlfriend is having sex with her x cuz when we went out over to his friends place she and him went to get alchohol and i wanted to go and she said no. i said why can't i go with and she said i was too much of a watchdog...excuse me. then when we were going over to his place to drink she wanted to go with him driving over there rather than with me. i had to argue with her to get her to come with me driving. he and her always have to go behind closed doors so i can't see. it's not for long, but i don't know what they are doing. she even sat on his lap. she said she would do this but he couldn't touch her with his hands. then she sat with me. she always says to wait in the car to me while she goes inside her x's place. what r they hiding? when i go to her place she always says wait in the car. i got tired of waiting and went inside and she was on the phone with her x again. when i droped him off one morning at 5am i came back and she was on the phone again with her x.help
2006-07-21 10:34:19 · 17 answers · asked by Leon 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Dump Her, Keep your pimp hand strong!
2006-07-21 10:37:38 · answer #1 · answered by Angus Young 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It sounds to me that she hasn't let go of him yet or doesn't want to. You deserve someone that is totally and completely into you. There is no reason to do ANYTHING behind closed doors that you cant see, if she's not doing anything wrong, right?So I'm afraid your suspicions are right. You should talk to her and if she gets mad and defends everything that's been going on, you need to leave her. Do it before you get even deeper in the relationship.and always remember, "Don't Waste Time On Someone Who's Not Willing To Waste Time On You". Be Strong!
2006-07-21 10:59:57 · answer #2 · answered by Star 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If she isn't already cheating sound to me like she is just waiting for the chance the question is why would you stay with someone still so connected to her ex? I have several ex's i do not sit on thier lap even the one's i hang out with that is disrespectful to you and you should end the realtionship and find someone that treats you right.. Good Luck
2006-07-21 10:57:13 · answer #3 · answered by Amy M 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, from what you describe, this doesn't sound good for you. You seem like a sweet person, but my goodness do you put up with a lot. I'm friends with my ex and I'd never dream of disrespecting my boyfriend the way your girlfriend has disrespected you repeatedly. And you keep on taking it. What, does she have beer flavored nipples? I think you're long overdue for a chat with her. It's one thing for them to be friends, and it's quite another for them to treat you like the 3rd wheel every single time. And you keep giving him rides! Oh Honey...you deserve much better than this. I hope you can see that for yourself. Good luck!
2006-07-21 10:42:14 · answer #4 · answered by SuperJenn 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think she might be. More importantly if she TELLS you to wait in the car while she goes any place with another man then its wrong. If u have to argue with her over another man, its wrong and u are better than that. Ask her straight out and if if her answer is unbeliveable then u need to end things and move on asap before u get hurt.
Good luck my dear.
2006-07-21 10:41:45 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
something is going on wit them i'm sorry 2 say. what u need 2 do is sit & hav this talk wit ur girl find out what's really happening let her know how u feel & if she's not willing 2 stop her behaviour u should move on,get some1 who will respect u as u respect them cuz honestly ur girl is disrespectful...
2006-07-21 10:44:31 · answer #6 · answered by sweetheart 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can try talking to her to let her know that her relationship with him is hurting you and see how she carries it from there. If she continues to act this way, she doesn't respect her relationship with you.
Rather than worry yourself to death over it, if you don't trust her, you really should leave her. The relationship won't be a good one without trust.
2006-07-21 12:55:48 · answer #7 · answered by Dancer3d 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hello? leave her. she is so playing you for a fool. Shes walking all over you to see how far you will let her go...dude, take it from a girl who used to play games like that....leave her! find someone else who wants to be with YOU!
2006-07-21 10:53:12 · answer #8 · answered by cutiepie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sorry guy, she absolutely is. you are getting takin for granted, and used and treated like you will just take anything from her and you will stay, that is what she thinks. she obviously still wants her ex, and he her. dont sit and take this, have some confidence and quit letting her run you and make you look like a pussy whipped punk.
2006-07-21 10:58:27 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
oh honey...leave the tramp! you are probably a nice guy to her and she is one of those dumb gals that don't appreciate it, she likes to be treated like **** oh and BTW she is having sex with him or she wants to, do not call her let her go and see what happens.their are a lot of girls out there don't let some chick treat you like this Fu*k her!
2006-07-21 10:46:59 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Are you kidding me? dump her, she is having her cake and eating it too! I can't believe you have stayed even this long... you deserve better..... tell her to have a nice life WITHOUT you!
2006-07-21 10:45:12 · answer #11 · answered by me :) 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋