I am 21 years old. i have never kissed a boy or had a boyfriend. what am i doing wrong?

Answer 1

Is there something wrong with you?

Answer 2

You know you are at an advantage you have known many guys and you are very conservitave and you know by now exactly what you want, do not start to get worried that the right man has not come along and do not go for the next guy to walk in to the room, continue to be the wonderful person that you are and remind yourself all the things that people like about you, go find yourself an elderly woman to be helpful to and she is bound to have a nice grandson about your age that will appreciate you to the max and you two will fall madly in love, and you will have made a new friend too... Good luck

Answer 3

If you ask me you are doing everything right. Its a lot better to be like you than having lost your virginity at 15, had umpteen sex partners and become pregnant or worse caught STDs.

I had my first boyfriend and kiss at 21 and i turned out just fine. At 24 i met a wonderful man (my 3rd boyfriend) and i married him when i turned 26. We have a wonderful baby and are a happy family. I turned 30 couple of days ago.

So be patient. Good things are worth waiting for.

Answer 4

absolutely nothing !keep it up for as long as you can you will live a better and much more beautifull life, once you go there its just like eve and the apple,head games,broken heart ,pregnancy
argument, the odds of you stay with your first love are right up there with an asteroid hitting another asteroid splitting up making tiny little asteroids and landing in you back yard...
god bless you ,anyone can be a hardcore slutttt that's easy..but not many can do what your doing and once you go there you cant comeback.

Answer 5

My first thought is that you are not making yourself available. I would suggest that you think up some activities that guys would also be interested in that you could get involved in. Alternatively, you could join a dating website like match.com (where I met my wife). If you are religious, you could get involved with a church group. If you are political, you could volunteer to help on someone's campaign or for a political party. You could take a class or join a gym. In that way, you would be creating opportunities for guys to meet you.

Answer 6

It's a solvably problem: find a nice boy, and kiss him. Yeah, I know it's not as easy as that, but you need to put the effort in to do it. Get out, meet people (including boys) your own age, find a nice one, kiss him.

Answer 7

NOTHING!

If the right one hasn't come along, you are FINE. Just get out there on the dating scene and don't let it scare you. Keep your guard up, and judge people well, but be open to romance.

There is NOTHING wrong with waiting, at least you didn't get pregnant at 14!!

Answer 8

With age comes maturity, and think of it like this... at least you didn't have to go through all the meaningless relationships when you were younger. when your older you know what you like, and what makes you happy, so I'd say good for you, and when you do find someone, I'm sure it will be very special.

Answer 9

There is nothing wrong with that. I admire you for not settling for just anyone. Find the right guy, the one you would love to spend the rest of your life with and experience all of that with him. Good luck to you!

Answer 10

Nothing. Just wait for the right guy to come along. You have plenty of time to get your heart broken.

Answer 11

I was 20 when I met my hubby and he was my first kiss and my first everything and now we are married. Let the time come on its own. but I do know how you feeel.