what would you do if you really love someone and you really want to marry him/her and your parents refuse and you really care about your parents but you can't live without the person you love because he's your soal mate???
2006-07-21 10:17:41 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
sweetheart.. been there done that... and i know exactly how you feel... i moved out... and im gettin married in 2 months.. my family still doesnt agree with it but things are getting better ... and my family will always love me know matter what! good luck... i love my parents to death but afterawhile they really saw that i really do love him and want to marry him... that it wasnt just another crush or puppy love...
2006-07-21 10:22:17 · answer #1 · answered by bubbly_blonde569 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Need more details here...how old are you? Are your parents just not giving their blessing for marriage? What is their reasoning? They may have a point for not wanting you to marry him...but they may be like a lot of parents that are trying to help but only making things worse. If you really love him and he loves you it will work out.
2006-07-21 10:24:14 · answer #2 · answered by sragic 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you are over 18, you can marry who ever you want. Your parents will get used to the idea after a while, so don't let them stand in the way.
2006-07-21 10:22:48 · answer #3 · answered by e_imommy 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Depends on how old you are, i think anyone under the age of 20 can't really plan for their future like that because they have a somewhat sheltered experience of the world. But if you are old enough then its nothing to do with your parents, they either accept it and embrace it or they don't.
2006-07-21 10:22:36 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
good thing i was not in that type of situation when i new my husband. but if im older then 18 years old and in that situation then id move out and marry that man, even if my parents dont agree. parents love you no matter what. even if you make mistakes in their opinion. so if you marry and move out, they will support your decision later down the road. but you should stick with the one you love. becus if you let go of him you will never find anyone like your soul mate.
2006-07-21 10:22:52 · answer #5 · answered by All4Christ 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Marry him,you can't lay with your parent's at the end of the day.Look I tell everyone you haf to live for you and nobody else.Living for other people will cause you to be all ****** up believe me.This is your life and his,do what would please you.Life is short remember that.Years go by so fast now a days yuo don't want to end up by yourself.Grow pld with him,I say go for it!
2006-07-21 10:22:54 · answer #6 · answered by dccuttie75 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honor your mother and father so your days will be long! It is your only logical choice. Your parents are older and wiser. they see and know things you can not. You can't go wrong if you follow God's rules. You will find another love!
2006-07-21 10:22:21 · answer #7 · answered by ruthie 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your parents shouldn't have anything to do with this. Yes you can value there comments and concerns but in the the end the choice is YOURS!!! Good luck!
2006-07-21 10:26:21 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well if the person wants to marry too go ahead but you cant have your parents there
2006-07-21 10:20:57 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well your parents can't make up your mind they cant make you not be with him unless you are under 18 and if they really care they won't tell you to choose you shouldn't have to you just need to make sure that its really what you want to do.
2006-07-21 10:23:00 · answer #10 · answered by margesimpson 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋