yesterday my fiance (who currently lives in a another country) didn't message me by phone all day (which we do everyday) so today im trying to be strong and not message him back he send me messages today in he morning and afternoon saying ''why dont u answer me..u dont care..'' then he said ''can i call u'' and i still didnt answer but im thinking ''ofcourse u can call me'' why do u even have to ask!!'' but no he didnt even call. i feel maybe he doesnt care..what should i tell him if he calls me today or tomorrow since i didnt answer back his messages/call him. please help!
2006-07-21 10:10:20 · 12 answers · asked by sep 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Honesty is the best policy. Ask him why he didn't respond. Tell him you were upset. But next time ask him why before you start playing the "tit for tat" games.
2006-07-21 10:14:16 · answer #1 · answered by Hmmmm 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it truly is so unhappy that i won't be able to even say some thing undesirable. i experience so sorry for you because you're so deluded by using conventional subculture into questioning that you fairly love this guy, and that you want him. do not you comprehend what love is? it isn't any longer this, hun, really no longer this. He purely needs to have sex with you and also you want to get out of this quickly earlier you get pregnant or some thing like that. each and every female benefits more effective than this. i comprehend you imagine he's the purely man or woman you've, yet he isn't any longer. a minimum of you've a house, however insufficient it might want to be, and that i'm guessing you've acquaintances. And in case you get rid of this guy, it's going to make room for someone who really loves you in each and every experience of the word. they're accessible, they're only no longer extremely trouble-free so it takes some looking. end it. you gained't be apologetic about it. I promise.
2016-11-25 00:43:38 · answer #2 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just pick up the phone and find out what happened yesterday. Don't play these little games. This is your fiance, your future husband, you don't want to start a relationship like this. Did you have a fight before yesterday, and that's why he didn't contact you? If not, then why would you play a game of "well, you don't answer my calls, so now I don't answer yours, ha!" This is very childish. Call him NOW!
2006-07-21 10:44:18 · answer #3 · answered by BluePassion 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hey,
If he sending you msgs..Then he is showing you that he cares, And him asking if he can call you maybe he thinks that you are mad at him for not iming you one day and don't want you to hang up on him, you need to be there for him and show him what woman you are...After all, ya'll getting married...He is also probably nervous about marriage, most guys are at first!!! Just let him know that you love him and start talking back to him...Hope everything works out for the best and may God Bless!!
2006-07-21 10:16:49 · answer #4 · answered by afinechic_2000 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You guys need to stop playing games with each other. Why would you feel he doesn't care? Did he say that? If he did not say it, don't assume it! If he calls you to, tell him that you love him and can't wait to be his wife. Tell him that you missed his call the other day, and tell him how it made you feel. If you are going to be married one day, you have to know how to communitcate with each other. Don't start playing the assumption game. Games period, make for a rocky start in any relationship. Good Luck.
2006-07-21 10:18:26 · answer #5 · answered by Poetess_4U 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your boyfriend is cheating, he knows you are waiting to hear from him, but he don't care as long as he is with the other woman. I bet he called you after he had took her back home or either left her. If you put a bit of pressure on him, I bet he will come clean and tell you the truth.
2006-07-21 10:16:34 · answer #6 · answered by ? 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like your not old enough (or perhaps mature enough) for a long distance relationship like that. Also take time difference into consideration. Maybe it's really late in the evening, and he doesn't want to wake you, or vice versa.
2006-07-21 10:14:24 · answer #7 · answered by paydaytim 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think that he is showing he cares by contacting you. it is not fair that you prejudge. how do you know that nothing happened to him yesterday such as an accident or anything? do not hide and confront things. let him know that you were dissapointed. you need to enhance having this kind of conversation because if you get use to work this differences out you will have a better marriage.
2006-07-21 10:15:09 · answer #8 · answered by confuse06 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe he's trying to figure out how to scrape your clingy, manipulative, game-playing a$$ off his life.
2006-07-21 10:18:08 · answer #9 · answered by mrpeabody 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's probably nothing. Sometimes technology doesn't permit instant communication. If he's purposefully doing it then...why are you guys engaged?
2006-07-21 10:15:13 · answer #10 · answered by six.pack.abs 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋