3 years ago I cheated on my husband and I just learned after 13 years of marragie 3 kids and his pill addiction, he is now cheating on me After 1 week on knowing her he said he loves her. He is still doing pills, wrecking cars and big trucks I have been very calm not like myself at all I'm so torn, Big if "If he comes home should I forgive him like he did me?" I do love him I just can't live with him doing pills. Of course this could be his soul mate lol
2006-07-21 10:07:29 · 8 answers · asked by fetter_2004 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
He had The pill addiction when we got married I just didnt know how bad it was We have tried rehab twice but he wasnt commited ..We have both been married before.
2006-07-21 10:41:50 · update #1
GOD can handle any challenge; He is the GOD of "lost causes." Pray for your husband, and go to "rejoiceministries.org" , it is free and they can offer you lots of insight. Please, do not get a divorce; it will be the most painful thing in your life. Good luck & GOD bless.
2006-07-21 10:14:32 · answer #1 · answered by woman of faith 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't understand you cheated your husband and now he cheated on you been like 1 week ago and now you want to know if you forgive or move on?? Well number one both are tie for cheating. number 2 he told you clearly he in love with her, number 3 is that he already destroy cars and truck and eveyrthing since taking the pills. and I think you can find someone else. I think that he didn't take pill until you cheated on him so he talking very hard.
I don't see why you want him back and you think he could be your soul mate??? I don't think so if that was true and You won't being cheating on him first..
You have learned a hard way and knowing that other girlfriend he in love with banging right now..
You made this happen make that choice. and There no answer for you to solve it I am sorry.
2006-07-21 10:16:42 · answer #2 · answered by greenbaypackers1920 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Soul mated doesn't mean you have to deal with the pills. I walked away from my soulmate. The drugs and drinking became a problem. Then he went to stalking my kids and I. Our lives was more important then us being soulmates. Think about it.
2006-07-21 10:22:03 · answer #3 · answered by B D 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you're both cheating on each other then I think your marriage has come to an end.
2006-07-21 10:40:36 · answer #4 · answered by Meg 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
LET HIM BE. IF HE COMES BACK OR EVEN IF HE DOESN'T FORGIVE HIM NOT FOR HIM BUT FOR YOU,BUT JUST BECAUSE YOU FOR GIVE HIM DOESN'T MEAN YOU HAVE TO BE WITH HIM AND FROM WHAT YOU SAY YOUR NOT GOING TO BE MISSING NOTHING LET HIM BE THAT OTHER WOMEN'S PILL HEAD FIND SOME ONE ELSE
2006-07-21 10:15:58 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes forgive him, get him into rehab and then since you both like recreational sex, swing with him after he gets out of rehab. he will like that better than drugs......
2006-07-21 10:38:10 · answer #6 · answered by Taliesin7 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
forgive him only if he promises to see a doctor. otherwise leave. his pill addiction affects your children!
2006-07-21 10:11:35 · answer #7 · answered by ♫Pavic♫ 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Forgive him and seek help
2006-07-21 10:52:59 · answer #8 · answered by hrry_tws 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋