hey every one i think my ex wants me back he calls me all the time he emails me alot and he keeps on telling me that he is sorry i keep on telling him that i have a new b.f and that im happy with him and my ex gets all mad at me and hes like well he cant treat u as good as i did and im like yes he does then he was sawering at me and he woudnt stop calling me i say can you plz stop calling me hes like no. then hes like if u dont go out with me ill put u and your b.f in a coma and he keeps on saying really rude suff to me i try to ingor him but it doesnt work he threthens me alot to he told me that hes gonna come over to my house when im a aseep and kill me thats wut he said to me now im scared to go to sleep at night becuase im woried thats really gonna happen i didnt mean to make him mad
2006-07-21 09:57:28 · 7 answers · asked by becca p 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Your ex is simply being possessive. His behavior is not that of someone who actually loves you. A man who loves you would tell you how he feels but respect your choices and would never threaten you or take out his anger on you. You need to stop communicating with your ex and force him to move on. Right now by communicating with him in even the slightest you are giving him hope and a chance to stay in your life. You need to simply refuse to let him into your life. Don't take his phone calls, don't talk to him if you see him on the street, and don't let him and his threats control your life. If he really threatened to kill you then let the police know if your really that scared.
2006-07-21 10:03:30 · answer #1 · answered by rkrell 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like a bad case of rejection on his part. Tell him to be the man that you know him to be and accept the situation. If he claims to love you, then he will respect your wishes to be with this new guy. But then you need to stop answering the phone and emails and playing into his heart that there could be a possibility. Tell him kindly to leave you alone and then do the same yourself.
As for being scared....tell your family and friends about the threats, so that they are aware of the situation.....not to spread gossip! If he actually tries to harm you (I doubt he will, unless he has had a violent past), then you call the cops and press charges. Get a restraining order if you are feeling that threatened.
2006-07-21 10:07:24 · answer #2 · answered by happydancergirl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ok your ex sounds like a big problem. u should tell someone he's threatening your life and your new bf 2. and the thing with him calling all the time, u can block calls, if u have caller id, dont pick it up. and block him on your yahoo (including email, put his messages as spam so u dont have to see them) in another words cut off all contact with him. i had a similar problem with an ex, i just ignored him, and concentrated on my new bf. he'll leave u alone eventually, but dont ignore his threats, take them very seriously, girls have been killed by their ex-bfs b4.
2006-07-21 10:06:54 · answer #3 · answered by sarah_gotdance 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he's possibly feeling a touch insecure and wanting reassurance that he's the single you fairly want. you may want to tell him that you're so satisfied that you met him and that your ex under no circumstances even pops into your head. Or be stupid and faster or later go out and employ the action picture and tell him you want to make a sparkling reminiscence or both of you gazing it because you comprehend it truly is going to be so a lot more effective with him. i comprehend at cases i have teased my bf about his exes, and it is continually because someplace interior the decrease back of my options, i'm questioning if he's as pleased with me and if i fairly stack as a lot as her.
2016-11-25 00:42:59 · answer #4 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you need to let the police know what is going on...because he may be crazy enough to do something like that. block his calls and emails don't have no contact with him at all. CALL THE POLICE NOW
2006-07-21 10:08:02 · answer #5 · answered by LASHANNA P 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
girl you need to get yourself a restraining order against your ex bf. he has issues and its apparent that he won't leave you two alone.
2006-07-21 10:11:35 · answer #6 · answered by lily 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Have you talked to your new boyfriend about it? How bout a restraining order.
2006-07-21 10:03:24 · answer #7 · answered by t79a 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋