hey evey one ive been dateing my b.f for a year and a haf now i really love him i really do. we talk on the phone for a while then he askes me if he can call me back he only called me back like once and i uslly have to end up calling him back. does he hate me or somthing i love him so much i dont know if he still loves me how can i fined out if he still loves me.
2006-07-21 09:48:33 · 18 answers · asked by becca p 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
a lot of guys have add...so they will tend to forget. dont worry too much about it. or just ask him why he says one thing and wont follow through.
2006-07-21 09:51:02 · answer #1 · answered by Your_Star 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Really, and I know this sounds so cliche, but you gotta, and I will emphasize once again, you gotta communicate your insecurities to your guy. From your question, it sounds like there are a bunch of holes inbetween you guys and it sure sounds like you have a lot of questions that need to be answered.
Loving someone ane and questioning whether he loves you back is a big big deal, especially if you have been in a committed relationship with your bf for a year and a half.
Talk to him and tell him how it makes you feel when he says he's going to call you back and never does. I'm told that a lot of times guys don't realize what they're doing wrong, aren't aware they are actually hurting their gf's feelings, and then we as women tend to over analyze the situations sometimes. I know it seems like such a small deal, but when it happens more than once, you can't blame a person for having crazy ideas, thoughts, and insecurities that begin to run wild.
Find the courage to have a talk with him and get straight to the point. You'll find that a lot of your questions will be answered and it'll put you at ease from the confusion you've been feeling. So, have that talk and lay it all out. You'll be glad you did.
Good luck..and my best wishes to you and your bf.
2006-07-21 16:56:17 · answer #2 · answered by Trixi Curious 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
A lot of guys tend to act different later on in the relationship than how they were at first. This is because that he feels like he doesn't have to impress you anymore. Its a sign that he feels totally comfortable with you and thinks that you're his sanctuary, someone he can actually be himself with.
But don't let this get to you. Your boyfriend still has the obligation to give you your time of day and to treat you right. But before you pounce on him for his insensitivity, check whether everything's alright in HIS life. He might have some problems that he doesn't tell you so as not to worry you, that's why its as if he is becoming distant. Be there for him during the trials of his life, that'll help both of you become closer, and try to understand his point of view on things.
But one of the best ways is to talk it over with your BF. After all, this is all about the both of you. Let him know your needs and listen to his needs. Compromise and assure each other that you'll always be there for each other. He is your boyfriend and he has the right to know if he is hurting you and he has the right to defend his actions. By understanding each others problems and points of view, both of you will surely become closer.
Hope this helps!!
2006-07-21 16:56:38 · answer #3 · answered by Mujareh 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Usually when I tell someone I will call them back and never do I am either bored with the conversation or I am busy. Maybe you need to spice up your relationship. Guys like variety. Do some crazy thing together, dress a little different. You need to keep him guessing and wanting more.
2006-07-21 16:55:00 · answer #4 · answered by honeybeige2004 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you have been together that long you should just come right out and ask him but if he is telling you he is going to call you back and never does there is something wrong with that picture that means there is something that is more important than you or he needs some space so just ask him.
2006-07-21 16:55:44 · answer #5 · answered by dynamitedon1 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Even though I'm sure you want to talk to him, wait until he calls. I don't think he hates you. But at the same time he should have the decency to tell you he's busy and not lie to you. I'm sorry but just stop begging him and calling him all the time. If he still doesnt call maybe he's trying to give you a hint.
2006-07-21 16:53:28 · answer #6 · answered by lily 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Did you ask him why does he tell you he'll call you back but then doesn't? Maybe he's just not a fan of talking on the phone and it's nothing personal, however it's a bit rude for him to say he'll call back and then doesn't. I'd straight up just ask him what's going on.
2006-07-21 16:52:09 · answer #7 · answered by d_magical_s_sweetness 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
u should ask your bf y he doesnt call u back, and when he doesnt call u back dont call HIM back. and how often does he call u? if he doesnt call u that often (ex. u call him 5 times in a row and he doesnt call u once there's a prob) wait til he calls U! i had a similar situation with a past realtionship, dont let him control u when it comes to phone calls. and to find out if he still loves u, just ask him!
2006-07-21 17:13:36 · answer #8 · answered by sarah_gotdance 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Quite simply you should just ask him. The thing is that both men and women are odd! Men like to know they are liked but don't like to be smothered in it. When you and he are in a casual situation ask him how he feels about the relationship and about you, be don't scare him off but constantly confusing your undieing love!
2006-07-21 16:54:01 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
give the dude a little space i have been in this situation before and sometimes you just want to do stuff with out your girlfriend always checking on him he is tring to be nice by saying he will call you back he really just wants to do his own thing give him trust
2006-07-21 16:52:52 · answer #10 · answered by LT. DAN 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he don;t love you just use you when a guy say he will call you later that mean he don;t want to talk and he never call back right so you need to move on he must be cheated to
2006-07-21 16:52:55 · answer #11 · answered by maya 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋