My boyfriend and I have sex a lot and he says i've gotten "loose" how do i fix it?
2006-07-21 09:43:44 · 20 answers · asked by Kat 1 in Health ➔ Women's Health
Keigel exercises is one way. There is also another product out there that works like a lube. You can buy it in adult online stores. I am in the office right now so I cannot search at the moment. I do know it works though.
2006-07-21 09:46:28 · answer #1 · answered by Lubers25 7 · 3⤊ 1⤋
You can tighten your vaginal walls by contracting them. You know how when you pee you can contract and stop it for a minute and then start again. Use that same muscle movement to contract the walls. You do this exercise anywhere any time cause no one can see or tell. Doing abs is also a good way to tighten your vaginal walls as well. Its like getting a double bonus. Try those and see how it works out for you. And maybe try easing up on the sex a little.
2006-07-21 09:52:14 · answer #2 · answered by Simply Put 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try this:
sit upright and close your eyes. Focus on that part of your lower abdomen and try to twitch the vaginal muscles. You can feel it happen. If you are not sure use a finger and tighten around it to see. Another good way to figure out which muscles to focus on is to cough while inserting your finger. You will feel the correct muscles tighten up a surprising amount. Then practice control of these muscles. With some effort you can learn to undulate these muscles while incoitous which is guaranteed to drive your man crazy.
What I have trouble with is why he says you are too loose. You are probably just relaxing more. Is he really small or is his erection not firm? Any woman can benefit by enhanced muscle control but otherwise don't let him worry you. You are probably perfectly normal. He needs to learn how to enjoy a relaxed vagina more.
2006-07-21 09:45:25 · answer #3 · answered by The Grand Inquisitor 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
THERE IS AN EXERCISE YOU CAN DO...WHEN YOU ARE PEEING..STOP.IN THE MIDDLE OF GOING..HOLD YOUR PEE FOR A FEW SECONDS..THEN PEE SOME MORE BUT STOP AND HOLD IT..THIS WILL WEEK THE MORE YOU DO IT...ALSO LAY ON YOUR BACK..PUSH YOU LOWER BACK INTO THE FLOOR(THE PART ALMOST YOUR WAIST) AND LIFT YOUR PELVIC UP...YOU WILL FEEL YOU LOWER TUMMY TIGHTEN, YOUR BOOTY TIGHTEN AND BELIEVE IT YOU WELL FEEL YOU VAGINA TIGHTEN..DO THIS AS MUCH AS YOU CAN IT WELL ALSO HELP...(BUT THAT ONE MAY MAKE YOU HORNY) SO BE WARE......
2006-07-21 09:51:10 · answer #4 · answered by whitewolf 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Kegel exercises http://www.childbirth.org/articles/kegel.html
2006-07-21 09:45:09 · answer #5 · answered by linzy 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Douching helps. Also try to minimize sex.
2006-07-21 09:49:30 · answer #6 · answered by mama koo 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Put a bushing in it!! If you don't know how here it is..Go to the store and buy a ham with a bone in it.. Then put the ham in you and pull out the bone!! lol And you heard it here first from a REAL Nutcase!!"""NUT'S"""..PS ...did i win...did i win...did i win??
2006-07-21 11:22:29 · answer #7 · answered by dl200558 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him that you are not loose but that he is the one schrinking and can't give you the friction he once gave you!!!
2006-07-21 09:53:58 · answer #8 · answered by woodtigerdp 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell your vagina to stop spending so much. The economy isn't what it used to be. Times are tight and it should be as well.
2006-07-21 10:20:38 · answer #9 · answered by cpshade 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Lay off the sex and masturbate a lot.
2006-07-21 09:45:03 · answer #10 · answered by howlettlogan 6 · 1⤊ 1⤋