2006-07-21 09:34:17 · 8 answers · asked by consigliere 6 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
You could love him, but not be in love with him. It happens!
2006-07-21 09:43:24 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 5⤊ 1⤋
If you feel that way now it may not be smart to marry him. Why do you feel that way? All people have their flaws, but if it bothers you that bad do not marry him. If you "really" love you can accept him for who he is all the time. Every relationship has ups and downs, but you should never wish for him to go to hell. There is really something wrong in your relationship. Figure it out before you screw up and get married. In the end he my not be the soul mate you are/were looking for. Good luck!!!
To all the other answers so far. I have never wanted my husband to go to hell and leave me alone. I love him and we have been together for 12 years. Sure we have our probs. but we talk through it and work it out. That is how it is suppose to be in a marriage. It is all about love, trust, commitment, communication, compromise, and understanding.
2006-07-21 16:41:43 · answer #2 · answered by housewives5 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's the way of the world. I go through that with my boyfriend all the time. Some days I miss him and love him so much then other days I don't call him and hope he doesn't call me because I just don't want to deal with him! It's love alright - enjoy it!
2006-07-21 16:42:32 · answer #3 · answered by sofballinchic12 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
LOL.........Join the real world hon. It happens to just about everyone. I bet even Cinderella, and Sleeping Beauty had the same thought about their Prince Charmin's.
2006-07-21 16:40:30 · answer #4 · answered by auntkarendjjb 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sometimes when you are highly stressed -- you just want to be left alone.
i love my mom -- there are times when i am repulsed when i come home from work really stressed. but there are days when i want to spend my time with her, and feel really guilty that i was mean to her.
i do try to be nice to her, i really love her -- sometimes when im stressed or upset -- i just can't help it. i want to be alone, that's all.
2006-07-21 17:01:36 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You maybe a bit bipolar.Just reminder At your best you are loved
2006-07-21 16:40:17 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because you are practicing for marriage!!! lol..seriously though..that's just how some days go...
2006-07-21 16:38:11 · answer #7 · answered by Sharlala 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it's normal. ups and downs...will be like that all life long
2006-07-21 16:56:41 · answer #8 · answered by Babz M 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋