It's not that he doesn't satisfy me but sometimes he's at work and I get so horney. Isn't a vibrator better than cheating?
2006-07-21 09:29:31 · 23 answers · asked by Summer 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
All you have to do is ask him. If he truly loves you he will understand. It may even spice up your relationship a bit. Maybe you both can use it the next time you are together?I was reluctant at first but it don't bother me like it used to. I may give my wife a hard time about it (you know kidding her). I think it brings us closer. And she knows no matter what happens I will always love her. Yes, a vibrator is better then cheating less problems in the long run.
2006-07-21 10:05:36 · answer #1 · answered by Radar 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
He'd love it as long as you put it to him like you have to this board.
After you have really great sex one evening, just tell him that you wish he was there all the time because you just can't stop thinking about what great sex you have together. Then make a silly comment about how you think you'll just buy a vibrator so you can use it during the day while you are thinking of him.
Most men are really turned on by sex toys. Find some online sites where you two can pick some out together. Ebay has a great adult site with tons of toys.
Toys can really spice up your sex life. It can take a lot of pressure off of him if you let him use them on you during sex, too!
Good luck and have fun!!!
2006-07-21 16:43:36 · answer #2 · answered by JustLookinAround 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No loving husband should be offended by anything that gives his wife pleasure (at least if it doesn't involve her having an emotional relationship with someone else). And given your recent question about finding your husband's stash of porn videos, I'd say that if he does try to complain he doesn't have a leg to stand on: he's obviously masturbating now and then (like almost every other married guy), so how could he possibly object to you doing so?
I'm sure if you offered to let him watch you use it (and maybe join in eventually) he'd be only too happy to buy you one. It could be a late 4th of July present -- fireworks are traditional then, right?
2006-07-21 17:11:59 · answer #3 · answered by Roger D 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know I wouldn't be. Ask him how he feels about it and if he would be willing to use it on you. Approach it from the curiosity stand point, not the I am frustrated sexually or so alone points of view. He should be more than willing to "help you play" with it, which should lead to both of you wearing large grins ;)
2006-07-21 16:39:59 · answer #4 · answered by Big Daddy 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have a vibrator and my husband went with me to help me pick it out. You don't really have to tell him you get horny when he is not there. Just tell him that you want to experiment more.
2006-07-21 16:35:15 · answer #5 · answered by 4X4 Woman 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why not insist he come home for lunch? Or use your hand?
Anyway, I'm sure he'd love to get you a vibrator.
2006-07-23 04:04:19 · answer #6 · answered by BigPappa 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm sure if you invited him to go with you, it could lead to a very interesting shopping experience. My wife has a large assortment and I have helped buy them all. It has been fun for the both of us. Hopefully he will want to participate. Have fun.
2006-07-21 16:43:08 · answer #7 · answered by loser 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well I dont know about YOUR hubbie, but once mine found out how much hotter I got when I had more orgasms,and how much more I wanted him in me after three or four electronic orgasms, he started buying them for me. At Christmas he gave me a WONDERFUL purple silicone "rabbit" vibe. It's a world rocker, show him this post and get one!
2006-07-21 17:21:23 · answer #8 · answered by Taliesin7 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This should not offend him. Maybe you and him could go to the store and pick one out together. Just don't get one too much bigger than him, or he will be offended.
2006-07-21 16:39:18 · answer #9 · answered by Handsup 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
HECK NO!!!!!!!!!!!!!
I think it would be great if my wife would let me get her a Vibrator. Course with my closed mind I would insist that she not get one bigger than my doo lolly. but other than that I would love it. I wish she would let me watch her use it and if she hurt it??? I would kiss it and make it all better over and over... french kiss it that is.
2006-07-21 16:36:53 · answer #10 · answered by 57chevy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋