I have been single for over three years and I have been looking for the right person to start something serious with, but all I seem to meet are women who just want to **** around. Where is the best place to look for the woman who may fit my needs?
2006-07-21 09:05:56 · 20 answers · asked by quizzed 3 in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
Now I would like persons to respect me just as much as I respect them..don't judge and don't quote the Bible to me..
2006-07-21 09:14:17 · update #1
thanks to those who understand. yeah i guess i should stop looking and just wait..but its been 3 years now and i'm just a little bit frustrated.
2006-07-23 08:28:42 · update #2
tell the rest of them with negative responses to go to hell.
take your time ,enjoy being single and hope when you find someone they give you everything you sound like a wonderful girl....if i wern't taken i would give you every thing you asked for because since i am the type you are looking for i know they are there ..... Be Patient....
2006-07-21 09:20:42 · answer #1 · answered by sweetshariqua 1 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Well, what do you do, in your spare time? I do some volunteer work....I used to with RAIN and now with the women's shelter. If I were you, I would take some time to devote to a cause that was near to your heart. Then, when (most likely when) you meet someone you are interested in, you will already see that there is more to their lives than T and A.
Sign up for a class at the local community college. You would be suprised at how many lesbians continue their quests for knowledge.
Sometimes you just have to try different routes. I would definitely leave out the club/bar scene for awhile.....not that you don't meet nice people there, but the possibility of finding a relationship minded person there is pretty slim.
Don't listen to the first guy who answered. You really seem intellingent and know what you want. I hope you didn't give him any credence.
Best of luck to you!
2006-07-21 10:21:38 · answer #2 · answered by Autumn BrighTree 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
wow, you got some retarded ppl answering your question..sorry about that..lol gotta love the ones who think wow, a gay, I must change them, or wow a gay...they aren't happy because they are gay. Well, guess what I think most of us are unhappy because we deal with heterosexual asses all day long..lol Anyway, I am looking as well to find love, I have been single for over a year now, and hard to find a good woman, I know the internet thing hasn't worked for me. Good luck, I have given up on looking hopefully love will find me.
2006-07-22 16:39:49 · answer #3 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
my best advice is to stop looking. just let things happen because it was meant to be. if you are religious...just pray to God and ask Him to send the right lady in your life. if you are not...do not worry about it. the right woman will come along. women are all over the place like malls, libraries, college campuses...shoe stores?? stuff like that. go to places where you enjoy hanging out at and you may find a nice lady there....that way... you both will have something in common. i hope this helps!! peace out, la chica!
2006-07-21 09:16:02 · answer #4 · answered by SweetCoco 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well I found my girlfriend right here on Yahoo. And we've been together for 4 years now. You just have to find the person that is right for you. It could be anywhere.
2006-07-22 12:25:40 · answer #5 · answered by systematic_rebellion 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Oh, dear lady, I wish I could tell you. The dating scene is so chaotic. Might I suggest checking out the librbary, possibly the Unitarian Church in your area (they are very open to us "Happy" people). My partner and I are approaching our 26th anniversay in October and I couldn't imagine dating again. I wish you the best of luck. May you find who you're looking for. Blessings.
2006-07-21 09:23:50 · answer #6 · answered by Mama Otter 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you constantly look you'll won't find exactly what you want. It will come to you out of nowhere. I met my ex girlfriend by chance, when our mutual friend invited us both out and we hadn't seen each other since we got out of high school 3 years before. So it tends to happen where you meet someone, out of nowhere. But if you live in an urban area, you're bound to meet someone of interest.
2006-07-21 09:19:03 · answer #7 · answered by graciefaith1 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't pay attention to the morons who come here like their only purpose in life is to harass us. They are nothing more than one eyed cyclops with an IQ you could subtract some fingers from.
Try the GLBT organizations in your area. You can meet some like minded people.
2006-07-21 12:25:56 · answer #8 · answered by merlinsdragonfire 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I see the jesusfreaks are out of bed..keep you opinion (however stupid they are) to yourself..if you really knew your history you'd know the whole god thing is just a big fat lie to control the minds of the weak. WHY are you in this sestion anyway!!... as for where?... my step daughter is lookin.. cute, 24,chunky,black hair dark brown eyes, dark skinned and 24...
2006-07-21 09:13:25 · answer #9 · answered by TimeWastersInc 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I also suggest you stop looking. When you look you can't find, and you find when you don't look. Just try to go out more, get yourself out there. Be natural and honest, don't try to hard to find that "someone" and she'll come around.
Good luck!
2006-07-21 10:57:32 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋