2006-07-21 08:48:00 · 9 answers · asked by sadie 1 in Health ➔ Women's Health
i'm not new to sex lol.
2006-07-21 13:18:51 · update #1
Need more information to be able to give any good answers. How old are you? Depending on your stage of life, you body could or could not be producing enough secretions when you are sexually stimulated. Without enough secretions, sex can be painful. Different medications can also affect how much your vagina produces secretions. Are you taking any medications, and if so, which ones? (i.e. antihistamines).
His size and your size can also affect your comfort or discomfort. If this is the problem, your body eventually will accomodate, but it will take time.
Have you had this problem before? How experienced are you? If you are fairly new to sex, it can be more painful.
Do you have any "female disorders" that you see an MD for? Any STD's?? Are you prone to bladder infections?
2006-07-21 09:00:12 · answer #1 · answered by louxloux 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You may not have enough lubrication, you may be having sex too often and getting bruises or small cuts (normal), you may be tense from the thought of the expected pain, or you may have gynocological issues you don't know about. Endometritis was once called the wife's disease, because woman would tell their husbands that it hurt, and the husbands thought they were just using that to get of of their womanly duties. Come to find out, these woman were suffering from a disease. Try relaxing, add some lubricant, and take it slow. Being on top can help you be in control of the depth and ease of sex. Make sure you are really into the act. Lots of foreplay. If none of this helps, go to your doctor and make sure everything is ok. Good Luck!
2006-07-21 09:01:28 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
1) Are you a virgin?
2) Are you becoming lubricated?
3) Does the person you are having sex with using a condom? If so are you allergic to latex?
4) What kind of pain?
Well, without those specifics I can't help you. I would go seek a gynocologist.
Good luck!!!!
2006-07-21 08:52:27 · answer #3 · answered by slickkittykattwhopurs 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The "male" who suppling you with the penis probably isn't to good at foreplay so you probably aren't getting enough wetness down below. Also rubbers/ condoms also increase harshness during sex ( but i won't tell u not to protect yourself) If your having sex with the fan or AC on turn it off of yal cause this also helps with making you dry thus increasing friction meaning pain. So simply ask you partner to pay more attention to foreplay instead of simply getting in you. If it helps use ice while he's eating you it increases your pleasure trust and believe
2006-07-21 09:05:36 · answer #4 · answered by RATROACHES 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You could have what is known as Dyspareunia. Dyspareunia can be caused by a number of factors, including vaginal dryness, atrophic vaginitis (thinning of the vaginal lining in some women, usually postmenopausal or those on certain drug therapies, including antihistamines and GnRH agonists), an allergic reaction such as to clothing, spermicides, douches or condoms, Endometriosis, Vulvodynia, Vulvar vestibulitis, Interstitial Cystitis, Lichen planus/Lichen sclerosis, urinary tract infections, vaginal yeast infections, sexually transmitted diseases and psychological or physical trauma. Dyspareunia is diagnosed based on specific symptoms and your medical history, and is treated through a number of different means depending on the cause, including use of lubrication during sexual activity, antifungals, antibiotics or other medications, recommending Sitz baths, use of topical estrogen cream or steroid cream, pain medications, surgery where appropriate (such as in the case of Endometriosis; see www.endocenter.org for a self-test to determine if this is your problem) and sometimes physical therapy with biofeedback. In order to determine the cause of your specific dyspareunia (and thereby enable you to choose a proper treatment), talk with your OBGYN.
2006-07-21 11:52:50 · answer #5 · answered by Endo 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ur bf maybe he dont know how to treat u, contact me i wil show you
2006-07-21 12:36:59 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you definitely need to give more information but you might have a cyst or fibroids. need more information in order to help you though
2006-07-21 09:09:45 · answer #7 · answered by SAMMIE K 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you have to ask then you certainly dont know what you are doing.
2006-07-21 08:51:09 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe ur partner doesnt know what theyre doing and just plowing you...
2006-07-21 08:54:03 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋