Who else hates new moms who think that everyone else needs to cater to them and their oh so precious child?

Question

Don't get me wrong, Im sure having a child is a very special thing...but there are some women who expect the world to stop to a hault just becuase little Johnny Crotch Nuggett and Mommy and her three other new mommys are marching down the street, 3 across, all pushing the latest and greatest in expensive baby buggies. These are the same women who take Baby Pilates and flood the parks with outdoor "Mommy and Me" classes in the spring. I don't know about you but I think its pretty pathetic. Did you have a child because you wanted one and PLANNED for it? OR did you have one because they are the latest fashion accessory? Or did you just get knocked up and said oopps!! Oh well. I am sure I am going to get a lot of hateful answers but I could really care less. I just want to know if there is anyone out there who knows what I mean.

Answer 1

Damn straight! I really don't have to add much because you said it best yourself. It really takes no talent to pop out a kid. Why do we have to treat new mothers as if they found a cure for cancer??!!

Answer 2

LOL! I have a kid but I don't belong to the Mommy Brigades who walk with their kids in huge groups down the sidewalk every day. Although ....I hated it when my daughter was little and I had her in the stroller and NO ONE moved when I was pushing it, say at the mall or a grocery store. People move for those in wheelchairs, so why not get the hell outta my way when I have a stoller? Anyway...yeah I hate those women who are having kids as an accessory. It's ridiculous.

Answer 3

My hubby and I have 3! They weren't planned but I wouldnt change having them for anything in the world! and no I didnt want people catering to me or the world to stop! I couldnt stand when people wanted to do stuff for me!
mommy and me classes are good fo rthe kids, a lot of moms dont get the luxury of being a stay at home mom so that may be the only real time they get to spend with their babies so they want the time to be fun and memorable! I am a lucky one I am a stay at home mom and luv it!
Yes I knwo what u mean at the same time! My sis'n'law is one who has now 2 kids cause she was jealous of me and her brother (my hubby) cause we had children now she can barely take care of them and expects us to watch them when she wants to go out, she does frequently and gets mad when we say no! She was one that wanted to be catered too! she is a single parent (which my heart goes out to those who work hard for aliving to provide for their kids) but my sis n law..I dont feel a bit sorry for her! She wanted kids over jealousy and now cant take care of them! There's more behind the story but I am not goin to say what! But wanting to have a child b/c ur jealous of someone else is the right reason! especially when u cant take care of them!
And I really feel for the women who can't have babies and wants one, they r the ones who would make great mothers, they would not take advantage of the child!

Answer 4

As a mother, first was offended and had to sit back and think. Your right there are some women who are out there that have kids for the sake of everyone else is doing it. They don’t discipline them. I call them other people’s children, then there are my friends, family and my children. You will not see my kids running havoc thru out the mall, supermarket, nor mouthing me off. Why, because I'm old school. I have family values, something this nation is losing. My kids will not ever say to a grownup to F-off. If they do let me know, I'll give them a bar of soap. My kids are my families’ bloodline, not a bothersome.

Answer 5

I don't know what your age is, but it seems very young. Not all mothers fit into this category. Just as all people that don't have kids fit into your category. Someday, when you have a child I'm confident that you will look back at this moment with embarrassment. If you continue to feel this way into adulthood, please don't have any children. You are entirely too selfish. I have a lot of single friends with no kids and have never heard any of them utter the hate that you just did. Good luck to you, I hope you don't feel this way about senior citizens too!

Answer 6

Carry a machete the next time you walk down the street and make a swinging motion like you are splitting a pumpkin open. They will move out of the way.

Answer 7

how in creation can you hate a new mom for any reason. if they seem a little 'over the top' to you then here's a reason that you may have not considered: they are NEW MOMS! i dunno, it's a concept.

whatever the reason a person has a child - the most important thing i can gather from this conversation is - at least they are engaged in the business of PARENTING. that's the most important thing.

that was a hateful question...so if you get hateful answers, it's because YOU opened that can of worms...

Answer 8

well, I'm a mom of a 4 month old and i didn't see any of myself in your scenario. i see those moms but realistically they are a small percentage. my husband and i wanted a baby and had a baby to share our lives with him, not to be cool or go to yoga. i have family with babies and they aren't that way either. most of us are just trying to be good parents. I'm sorry you are so hostile to the subject. when you have children they become your main focus, i guess that's why they do those things.

Answer 9

I think you have a slight chip on your shoulder.

You should try and laugh at these people, rather than responding in anger. You are wasting your energy.

Check out these sites, it may help you focus your anger a bit, and help you develop a sense of humor about those that choose to breed.

Answer 10

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Answer 11

well, i think it's great.......usually people who don't have children could care less that is normal.....everyone is different i guess in what they do for their children......the moms you describe sound great to me......they have money and are obviously using it on their precious children.....i guess it could be worse right....you could see moms dragging, hitting, and cursing their kids.

I have a child, and no i did not plan for her....but she is the greatest thing to happen to me....and if people are put off but what i do for her....i say too bad.....