why is it always when girls have sex with many guys shes a ****, but when guys have sex with alot of girls theyr studs!!!
and y is it that girls are supose to be virgins when they meet guys, and the guys are supose to be done sleeping with alot of girls!!!! ??? I just don't get it.. where do the girls come from that are supose to give the MAN experience, and what girls are supose to stay virgins?
2006-07-21 08:39:53 · 12 answers · asked by Ice-girl 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
its just not right
2006-07-21 08:43:22 · answer #1 · answered by san_ann68 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, that Virgin crap is from centuries ago. But as far people having sex several times men or woman I think wrong. If you do have with a lot people that's for you to keep not to be bragging about. If you have several sex partners men or woman that's just plain nasty. A man is not stud for having several sex , he's an idiot because doesn't know he wants ( a walking disease). A woman that brags about stuff is also an idiot that has very low self esteem. Hope I didn't sound mean but that's just my openion
2006-07-21 08:49:26 · answer #2 · answered by Irene A 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's to do with tradition and motherhood.
Men traditionally where meant to sleep with a woman to be considered a man, but only a servant woman or a peasant from the lower classes not women of the higher classes.
Because the first born son is the one who inherits the family's businesses & money the women were meant to stay "pure" so the child would definately be the husbands.
It was morally acceptable for a man to have sex with the lower classes but women had to stay pure & untouched it was a matter of honour
Basically the higher class women were meant to be virgins the lower class women were there to be used
2006-07-21 08:46:01 · answer #3 · answered by madamspud169 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That is something what is called "men's world", traditional and patriarchal. Also the church has the great influence over young people's way of thinking.
Basically, men and women are the same, have the same needs for sex, contact, touch..some people have stronger drives, some people have them weak...It has always been like that and I hope that the distance between sexes will be less obvious. But that's something what we all (both women and men) must do..
2006-07-21 10:25:39 · answer #4 · answered by Psychologist 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Speaking as a 'real man' it is a matter of jealousy. I was shocked to hear that my girl could make a conquest when I could not, oh my ego. Try and make allowances for us we are` the weaker gender
see my real man question.
2006-07-21 08:57:46 · answer #5 · answered by northcarrlight 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
THAT IS DOUBLE STANDRDS, AND A LOAD OF CRAP. DONT EVEN LET THAT BOTHER YOU.I HAVE ALWAYS BELIEVED IN EQUALITY AND THE SAYING THAT GOES " WHAT A MAN CAN DO, A WOMAN CAN DO EVEN BETTER AND MORE"
MEN WILL ALWAYS HAVE THAT IDEA THAT THEY ARE SUPERIOR, BUT ITS JUST A WAY TO BOOST THEIR EGO, SO LIVE LIFE, AND DONT WORRY ABOUT BEEING A VIRGIN OR NOT.
2006-07-22 08:25:44 · answer #6 · answered by jiomylove 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Gang up on blokes time? I dont c it as a problem if a woman is experienced? ur first time is not normally memorable is it, so if u both have some experience ur first time together should b a lot better. surely this is a good thing?
2006-07-21 08:50:34 · answer #7 · answered by ???????????? 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It's just one more way in which life is totally unfair for women.
As long as you do whatever feels right to you, no matter what that is, and stay true to yourself, you'll be fine. Be proud of who you are.
2006-07-21 08:45:46 · answer #8 · answered by trixie firecracker 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's called the old double standard and it's been around for ages. I hate to say it, but lots of young guys are so full of bull you can't really believe their sexual escapades.
2006-07-21 08:43:48 · answer #9 · answered by Ricky 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
because us girls r supposed to do whatever the men tell us that is just wrong
2006-07-21 08:46:39 · answer #10 · answered by danradcliffelover#1always 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think its awful too. I agree its just not right.
2006-07-21 08:59:43 · answer #11 · answered by Helen L 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋