I am a muslim married lady, my husband demands that I should perfom oral sex with him (sucking), but I do not like it, some times he gets angry,please tell me what to do, should I fulfill his desire?
2006-07-21 08:32:25 · 17 answers · asked by pawinda 1 in Society & Culture ➔ Other - Society & Culture
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2006-07-21 08:36:11 · answer #1 · answered by Rewsna 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Dear Muslim lady,
I do not advise you to put your sexual life all over the Internet it is not encouraged in Islam.
You should tell your husband that he cannot force you to do anything that you don't want or like it is not allowed in Islam.
I suggest you find other things to do that you are comfortable with, work it out with each other and try to understand your husband more. But I think that judging by your Question maybe you are newly married? If so it will take time to get to know your husband don't worry things don't always stay the same people always change with time....
And please if you have a Question like this please do not post it here!! These people are KUFAR and you should not ask the KUFAR for advise...
2006-07-21 08:53:04 · answer #2 · answered by Peace 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your husband cannot force you to do such things. Rape is rape, whether it's between married couples or not.
You need to speak with him. If it's something you can do, the best thing to do is to speak with him about how it's making you feel. If you do not like it or enjoy it then it defeats the purpose of sex. Sex is something that should be enjoyed by both partners, not just one.
Maybe, together, you can find another way to fulfill his needs/desires, while at the same time enjoying your role within the sexual relationship.
2006-07-21 08:42:19 · answer #3 · answered by bitto luv 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't like given head.. never have.. don't think I ever will. Now I study Islam however, the way Black Muslims and Arab Muslims run and treat there families are different. We are considered equal... we provide and maintain the house and home.. we are the provides for the family, considered the Queen, worships and provided for. We don't walk behind our men or anything like that... we are however, required to cover ourself and live a respectful, morally right life.
I cannot tell you what to do and not to do.. because you two are bound by different laws of love and life. I however, believe that no person should have mental and physically control over your life... if it is your decision not to.. then it is your decision not to. However, I cannot tell you to disobey... and I also cannot tell you to belittle yourself as a woman of God and a Queen
2006-07-21 08:40:33 · answer #4 · answered by Sunshine_Diva 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you should not be forced to do any thing you are not happy with he has no right to demand any thing like that I am sure its against the islamic laws I had a muslim husband and was told that even seeing a woman naked was wrong no way would he touch me below so if men cant why do they think women should
2006-07-21 08:36:03 · answer #5 · answered by Mim 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, you should tell him that you don't like it and then not do it. If he is getting angry over something as small as oral sex then you should think about why you are with him. but, be strong and do not give in to him that makes him believe that you are easy and that he can walk all over you
2006-07-21 08:36:35 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Muslim women take advice from Sheikh Fatwa not from yahoo answer, Shame on you.
2006-07-21 08:39:01 · answer #7 · answered by dalia_almorsy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
explain that you should not feel pressured into doing something unecessary that makes you uncomfortable. if he has aproblem with that... thats his problem. stay with family for a few days till he figures out you mean it when you say no
you shouldnt have to do things like that if you dont want to.
2006-07-21 08:38:00 · answer #8 · answered by jess 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he really loves you he should respect your decision! I don't think that thingy belong in a mouth anyway. You could split, if you in the US...get away from that Loser!
2006-07-21 08:39:30 · answer #9 · answered by buttercup83 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
NO!!! u shouldnt have to do that!! not ever if u dont want to then its his problem!! just because he wants it doesnt mean he get it!!! tell him that and if he gets mad hes not worth ur time!!!
2006-07-21 08:36:51 · answer #10 · answered by Nicoble 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Take a lie detector test.
2006-07-21 08:35:56 · answer #11 · answered by whynotaskdon 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋