I feel awful, I knew he was keeping something from me but I didn't know what. While he was in the shower I looked in his truck and that is what I found. I asked him why and he said because he wanted to try something different and thought he could get some ideas from the porno videos. Should I believe him??
2006-07-21 08:31:20 · 22 answers · asked by Summer 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Sorry, But that it BS!! I wouldn't believe him right off the bat, I would think something is up! Like his weiner and another girls cuchi!
2006-07-21 08:35:25 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
Well of course he's going to hide it, most women go ballistic after finding such a stash for all the wrong reasons; Most common ones are the fact that " Am I not enough for you anymore?" , and you may feel that you are being cheated on by these movies, but in reality hey give him the benefit of the doubt and if not be glad its just movies and not something worse, who knows you could watch them with him like some other posters suggested and you may find that you enjoy it.
2006-07-21 15:50:15 · answer #2 · answered by "the Otter" 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't see why you wouldn't believe him, trust me a guy doesn't keep porno's in the back of his work truck. He would have a hiding place at home.
And abscent any other evidence to suggest anything else improper is going on (and just having porn in my humble opinon doesn't constitute anything improper) then I would believe him and just leave it at that.
Just because he has porn doesn't mean that he doesn't love you or find you attracitve or desirable. Alot of people use it to get new ideas or to get into the mood.
I hope this helps.
2006-07-21 15:39:03 · answer #3 · answered by Teclis98 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well, there's one way to find out whether he meant it. Watch the videos together, and if you see anything that you both like, try it out together. (You may or may not find you enjoy the videos: I'm afraid most porn actresses are very fake, from their fake boobs to the incredibly unrealistic way they fake orgasms to their incessantly pretending to enjoy anal sex -- try not to take them too seriously, guys don't. There are a few companies who have (mostly female) directors who make more relistic and sensual porn that women are more likely to enjoy, but the odds that any of those were in the back of your husband's truck are, alas, poor. But you should be able to enjoy watching the videos with him.)
If you don't want him to keep things from you, you need to be accepting, not get angry at him about them, otherwise he's just going to hide them more carefully.
2006-07-21 16:32:37 · answer #4 · answered by Roger D 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all...are you really asking a bunch of strangers if you should believe your husband???
OK...well, I for one believe him. It is a shame that he feels he has to hide it from you.
Bottom line men love porn whether they share it with theire wives, girlfriends or mistresses. As long as the the poorn is not illegal. let him keep it in the house so he does not hide it from you. If you dont like it then just dont watch it.
From experience I know that it does spice up your sex life. Be open minded and for gods sake trust your husband.
2006-07-21 15:49:46 · answer #5 · answered by stephiestrobel 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would'nt get mad it could be true depending on the type of Husband you have but why keep it a secret?? Possibly something is lacking either communication wise or sexually. Just be happy it was'nt a girl he was keeping in his truck. Could have been much worse.
2006-07-21 15:38:08 · answer #6 · answered by Yahoo Anwers 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You know him better than me but it sounds like you should believe him...if he wants to watch pornos then you should watch them with him...there is nothing wrong with it as long as you dont abuse it
2006-07-21 15:42:47 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
He probably just wants to watch them - it's a guy thing. Don't be offended. Watch them with him, or better yet steal them out of his truck and let him catch you watching them. That should get him going.
2006-07-21 16:43:02 · answer #8 · answered by Meg 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If I were his wife, I'd laugh and tease him about the names of the movies and the character names (Sandy Beach? Private Ryans Parts? etc) and then sit down and watch the movies with him.
2006-07-21 16:01:17 · answer #9 · answered by ray4u 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why not believe him? Besides what is the big deal? Even if he is watching them so what. It's not like he's cheating on you. Maybe just priming himself for you for later.
2006-07-21 16:24:29 · answer #10 · answered by toomuchtime 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋