what can you do if this 18 yrold girl text your husband all the time?

Question

she also comes over when he just home she also flirt with him what should i do

Answer 1

omg! are you married to my ex! I called her on his cell one morning while he was just waking up and let them both know they could have each others sorry @$$3$ - that is what I would do only if your brave enough and able to defend yourself after he is fully awake. then get a divorce... well that is my scenario

Answer 2

Find out what he's doing about it. Tell him it Will come to a stop or your marriage will. Got kids? Look up online divorce sites for their child support and alimony calculators. Figure out how much it will cost him to get a divorce, pay child dupport, alimony, the counseling everyone is going to need, 1/2 of medical, and school clothes, clubs and extra curricular activities, sports, gymnastic or karate lessons. Write it all down. Then show her how much money they are going to have to live on should she be 'lucky' enough to get him. Give her a lecture on morals and what most people would think of the tramp for trying that with a married man. Then make sure she knows exactly what size iron skillet and what type of baseball bat you are going to beat the hell out of her with should you ever catch her anywhere around him again. And have a talk with him, basic same thing, but include the love talk and exactly how important is the marriage to him (before you show him all the facts & figures). Let him know that there will be no second chances, so he had better make up his mind now. If he thinks the consequences are not going to be bad, you could be in for a life time of this. Have him change his cell number, if she gets it again, you know he's the one probably giving it to her. Also, get a camcorder, set up in a hidden spot and let him know that you have somewhere to go and that you won't be back for a good 6-8 hours. Or get a baby monitor and hide it next to a tape recorder, or next to a computer that records voices. Try to find out if he's just as into it as she is. Be honest with yourself. If you are in denial about if he is more than willing, than you are only fooling yourself. If he doesn't want anything to do with her, than he should get the cojones to tell her to cut it out. Good luck, don't take any crap.

Answer 3

"what can you do if this 18 yr old girl text your husband all the time?"

Laugh.

Kids. They're so cute when they're that age. Just precocious!

Seriously, I would laugh and think it was cute, and so would my husband. He's had these little bimbos come on to him at work and elsewhere, thinking that the poor man must be just DYING for some good humpin'...being stuck with a wife who's not...well...HER! [rolling my eyes] But, seeing as how they are completely disrespectful of our relationship, he puts them in their place in a hurry. My hubby and I swing, so all he'd need to do is say the word, and he could have sex with whomever he pleased. But he has no interest in people who are that immature.

That's what I would do. But if your husband is not on the same page as you in this respect, and he's encouraging her ridiculous behaviour, then the answer is you should tell him to put a stop to it if he truly respects you. It doesn't work coming from you; it must be him that tells her to piss off, otherwise it just looks like you're a jealous nagging wife, trying to tie him down. This is his responsibility. Tell him to make his choice.

Answer 4

first of all the husband should told this girl that I am married and I have nothing to do with you...that should been. What shoudl you do is that tell him do you notice that she been text you and coming over when you come home from work? if yes, also do you know she have crush on you. If he said yes then you need to fix it now and it started to making this marriage going down the hill right now. and Why can you be man enough to tell her... do you really want to have sex with her ?? If not then you need to do something about this because she can do something like you rape her and you can go to jail for that.. and It not even funny.

See what he said?

Answer 5

Whaoooo why would a 18 year old girl be texting your husband? And nonetheless be coming to your house? I think you should tell your husband that this is not acceptable and also confront her and ask her to please stop texting him all the time and ask what are her reasons for coming to your house.

Answer 6

She does this because he allows it. If he respected your marriage, he'd never let her in the front door and he'd change his cell phone number and never have contact with her. She may be pursuing him, but he's not stopping her. Whether he's acting on it, or is just flattered by the attention, you need to confront your husband and tell him she's not to be allowed in the house and the cell phone number is going to be changed and Lolita won't be getting the new one.

Answer 7

kick her out of your house. she's a homewrecker-- or getting there @ least. and kick your husband's a** for allowing such behavior, and for giving it back if he does.

what the h*ll is he thinking? your his WIFE, and that's all he should ever need. you need to have a talk with him, get his number changed etc. you better ask you husband what's his intentions as well. he's not txting this girl BACK is he???

you really need to talk too him and tell him this needs too stop because it's ABSOLUTELY inappropriate or you'll leave. he doesn't love you if he does this sort of thing too you.

Answer 8

Could start a Good old fashioned Cat fight... hehe

Ask u'r hubby what his intentions are. He should be the one to tell this teenie bopper to take a hike as he's married you know. If you don't like his answer maybe u should reconsider keeping him around.

Or u could ask her to join u 2 and make a Threesome... Ya i know.... hehe

Answer 9

tell the girl to leave your man alone. Make sure you talk to your husband about it too. Make sure that the girl knows that you don't feel comfortable with her being around him all of the time, and tell him to tell her to give him some space. Sometimes young girls have to be put in their place.

Answer 10

Ask her what she wants with your husband? You should make suprise visits when you know that she's gone to be there and hang out with them. ask your husband if you want to be with her? Talk to your husband about it if it's really bothering you. If it's really bothering you you should do something about it. You could flirt with her and make it seem as though you are after her. Then she won't want to be around. Ask your husband not to be around when she's gone to be around and see how she reacts. After all that tell her if you want to to leave your husband alone! Is it that serious? What do you want to do about it? What will you do about it?

Answer 11

Do you allow her to come over and to text your husband ..Seems to me you do.....Sorry to say but your stupid..Does you husband let you hang out with 18 yr old boys and receive text messages..I think not...You need to set both of them straight. and get down to the bottom of it. I wouldn't tolerate it!!