ok my friends keep saying "i miss brian" or "i miss craig" and the last time they saw them was yesterday. and they say how much they miss him and they can't go another day and all that crap...
they say that they don't know how i'm doing it.....cuz my fiance is in the army and will be gone this time for over 6 months.
i think they should be in my shoes for awhile then they will truley miss them.
and how do i get them to actually see it through my eyes?
2006-07-21 08:01:20 · 7 answers · asked by ♥Brown Eyed Girl ♥ 5 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Take comfort knowing that their relationship may still be in the infancy. Your relationship has been forced to grow and strengthen, plus you have learned quite alot being on your own, and loving someone far away. One day these people may completely loose the person "she can't live without". Then you will have more life lessons and wisdom to pass on. I don't think you can really make anyone see how you feel, but if it bothers you, just tell how juvenille it sounds to miss someone after only 24 hours.
2006-07-21 08:08:13 · answer #1 · answered by Jennifer W 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Explain the them how you feel about your man. Let them know what you go through every day. They need to grow up. When they start talking about all that crap just tell them that they ain't missing them as bad as they think they are until their man is gone for a while. Tell them nicely that you don't want to hear all that cause you have enough going on right now.
2006-07-21 15:08:32 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well they are just devoted and attached. Although it us unusual to actully miss someone when its been only a day it happens. Try changing the subject, if you try to compare their sorrow with your own about your fiance an arguement will start and that wont solve anything.
You could just try asking that they tone that down because it sometimes brings up old memories in you
hope that helps
2006-07-21 15:08:36 · answer #3 · answered by xrequiemofdeathx 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
They sound completely co-dependent. I doubt they will ever understand. Just be glad you are strong and be proud of your fiance. You two obviously have a very strong relationship.
Sorry, not really any advice there. Best I can say is just to call them on it.
2006-07-21 15:07:12 · answer #4 · answered by Phoenix, Wise Guru 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell them you have a gnawing lonliness for you fiance and you miss him desperately especially at night. And that its like a dagger into your lonely heart each time they mention they miss their significant other.
2006-07-21 15:07:12 · answer #5 · answered by BigPappa 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just tell them to shut up.. i mean i guess it really doenst make you feel any better that your person is gone in long lengths of time. just let them know that its starting to get annoying and that if they would please not bring up that crap when your in their presence
2006-07-21 15:35:05 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't know!
2006-07-21 15:04:58 · answer #7 · answered by ? 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋