2006-07-21 08:00:35 · 14 answers · asked by maha i 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
why dont you try telling him...
2006-07-21 08:02:18 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Before you run off and tell him..
So your crush is a total hottie…but do you really know his or her personality? If you're crushing on someone who's basically a stranger, try to be his or her friend first. Maybe you'll find out that this person is not for you, but hopefully, you'll get to know him or her and realize your instincts were right. Besides, being friends will make it easier to confess your feelings!
Try to talk to your crush in person, and bring up your feelings as part of a normal conversation…rather than blurting out "I have a crush on you!" and then waiting for a reaction. It might help if there's a school event coming up, like a dance or a concert, so you can ask your crush to the dance or to sit next to you. Whatever you say, try to be truthful, and always be yourself. If you act different or try to put on fake personality, then you might have to keep acting like that whenever you're around your crush!
You should just tell him, and if telling him to his face is to intimadating, write a letter, or an email, or over the phone! Dont spend your whole life wondering what might have happen, when you have the ability to know what can happen!
2006-07-21 15:05:58 · answer #2 · answered by Ri Ri 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You could easily just tell him. Ask him out. Show signs and let it be known somehow. Hang out and chill with him. Ask him what kind of girls that he's into, find out thing's about him and really talk to him. Let him know that he's into guy's like him and why. Let him know that your available and not dating nobody. Just say all the right thing's at the right time. If you really want to be with him and it was mean't to be it will be. Let him know that you love him without telling him that you love him. You could also write him letters, email him and call him but not too much. Send him a anonymous letter if you want to and see how he responds to it, saying that you love him without letting him know that it's you. Send him those kinds of letters.
2006-07-21 15:08:44 · answer #3 · answered by delawaregirl83 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well are u close and if u are then just sit him down and out rite tell him or better just call him and tell him over the phone so that way you really dont have to face him and the hard part iz over wit or the childish thing to do iz write a letter but thats so 4th grade or tell a friend to tell him and thats so 3rd grade and if u want him to except that u do like him just out rite tell him how u fell cuz if u get in a relationship with him then hes gonna want u to be honest but thats a whole diff story but you need to tell him ur self and get the hard part over with
2006-07-21 15:07:19 · answer #4 · answered by special k 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I understand telling someone that u love him, is really difficult. Try being his best friend & I guess things would work out. And remember:
God answers ur prayers in 3 ways:
1st: he gives u what u want.
2nd: he says wait, & gives u something better.
3rd: he gives u the best, at his own time.
2006-07-21 15:09:01 · answer #5 · answered by useless 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How can you really love him if he's just a crush? That's not love sugar, that's infatuation...if you're attracted to him, chances are he knows it...but if you aren't sure then tell him (but don't tell him you love him, that's a bit overboard)...
Good luck!
2006-07-21 15:03:26 · answer #6 · answered by . 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i am in this situation. i am just going to tell him. i wll not see him over the summer because i am away so if he feels the same he can call me but if he doesnt then he has the whole summer to get over it. Tell him or it will just play on your mind. Do it!!!!
Imagine how you will feel if he tells you he loves you too!!!
2006-07-21 15:06:05 · answer #7 · answered by xxmexx 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
what you should is that you chat with him a little bit and a the end dont be and say you love him.
2006-07-21 15:05:44 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you're not shy just ask him. If he says no, he isn't good enough for you.If you are shy, have a friend talk to him about who he likes.
2006-07-21 15:05:18 · answer #9 · answered by Bre 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well the easy way would be to just tell him....or you could go on Maury...lol
2006-07-21 15:04:38 · answer #10 · answered by WENDY G 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i don't think its love....i think you really like him and you think you are in love.
2006-07-21 15:03:46 · answer #11 · answered by ♥Brown Eyed Girl ♥ 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋