Okay, I babysit this girl who is 11 years old. Her dad works the night shift, so she used to come to my house and sleep over when I watched her. I live with my parents and two 11 year old sisters, so the three of them would play together. Sometimes, she would borrow my sisters' clothing. Well, one time she borrowed this really cute white denim jacket from my one sister and never gave it back. On the last day of school, my sister saw her with the jacket on and other kids signing the back of the jacket. She was understandably upset but didn't say anything but came home and told my mom. My mom called the girl's dad and told him, but his english is very hard to understand and all it seemed that he said was oh shoot. When confronted the girl says it was her jacket not my sisters but her dad doesn't remember her having a jacket like that and he buys her clothes. So my mom has asked her numerous times to show her the jacket and she says its at her friend's house. What should we do about this?
2006-07-21 07:34:24 · 10 answers · asked by Meggo 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
find someone to help translate to the father, and let him know you need that jacket replaced I am sure if the father is told and understands he probabley would be helpful in the situation.
2006-07-21 07:38:21 · answer #1 · answered by jojoB 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should have never let the girl borrow your sister's jacket in the first place. When you let a child borrow things you have to understand that they may damage it or never give it back. Good lesson for the future.
2006-07-21 14:38:31 · answer #2 · answered by LadyD1019 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
don't worry about something as trivial as a jacket....just don't help out the family anymore...Since Dad don't understand English, and the girl, obviously, is a Bitc*...just write the jacket off as a loss, don't have anything to do with them...and learn from this mistake.
2006-07-21 14:41:04 · answer #3 · answered by jonny 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get over it .. it's just a freakin' jacket ... !
Wait tell you get something important taken away from you and your family like a loved one then little stuff like this won't seem sooooo bad.
Life is too short to be worried about the little things ... !
2006-07-21 14:40:25 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
get over it it's just a jacket for crying out loud
2006-07-21 14:40:32 · answer #5 · answered by qpistol 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Small claims court may be the answer.
2006-07-21 14:37:19 · answer #6 · answered by cbharr10 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
IF I WAS IN YOUR PLACE.........I WOULD HAVE MADE DAT LIL' BYTCH GIVE ME DA JACKET BACK! I REALLY WOULD HAVE...SUM TYMES U GOTTA TAKE THINGS INTO UR OWN HANDS
2006-07-21 14:38:26 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should explain that you are upset and then ask her to pay for it.
2006-07-21 14:36:00 · answer #8 · answered by oneilt@verizon.net 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
small claims court or beat her ***
2006-07-21 14:36:07 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
kick her ***!
2006-07-21 14:38:31 · answer #10 · answered by ? 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋