what does it mean?

Question

when your boyfriend says..

"w/e i dont care, do whatever the ***** you want, i dont care, w/e"

does it mean that he no longer cares about you, and no longer wants this relationship or what. please help me.

;'(

he said this because i was going to go to my best friends birthday party [who is a guy and who used to like me]

and i got a little angry at him for being this way and he said that..

but i love him and he loves me...now what?

ps again- yes he was invited to the party also. but couldn't make it....


now what?

Answer 1

It means he could care less about you and what you think. Anyone who doesn't respect your sense of People and your sense of Trust doesn't deserve to have you in their life either.

Dump him, Immediately.

Answer 2

He absolutely does care or he would not have said anything, sometimes saying nothing is worse. I disagree with some of the people because I usually have found out that it is the quiet, nice ones that are doing the cheating. His words are just an immature response because he does not want to let down his guard and tell you how he really feels. Most likely he is bothered by something, maybe he is jealous because your ex-boyfriend is going to be at a party, so he says, "I do not care, do what ever you want." Not the case, it is really pissing him off, but he does not know how to express himself emotionally either because of his age or because of the stage of your relationship.

Most likely you are doing / saying something that you know might bother him and are trying to find out how he feels. Usually that backfires and you get the response you received. Just a hunch.

I wrote this before your update, so it looks like I nailed it.

Answer 3

I think it means that he is not prepared to make the decision, but is leaving it up to you as to whether YOU want to end the relationship or not.

It's kind of a weak way out, to sit back and say, "well, YOU decide if you still want to see me, I don't care anymore".

Not exactly a mature response.

I think it just means that he doesn't want to be in a relationship, but isn't man enough to say it himself.

You need to move on because really, where is the relationship going if one person has that kind of attitude? Obviously he doesn't care to resolve the issue, whatever it is.

Good luck. There's plenty of fish in the sea... you just caught a flounder this time. There are a lot better guys out there.

Answer 4

OK! When will people learn? You cannot always take things for face value. In your case it seems very evident, obviously whatever your bf is upset about he his true feelings are quite the contrary of his words. Often times a significant other will say the exact opposite of what they truly mean. My rule of thumb is, I would rather here them say something than nothing at all. If they don't have an opinion and really don't care, they will save their breath and let you make up your own mind!

Answer 5

Well first of all, it means he's disrespectful and you don't have to put up with that.

But in regards to your question, it would depend on the circumstances in which he said it.

If you asked, "Do you think we should break up?" and he said ""w/e i dont care, do whatever the ***** you want, i dont care, w/e", then I would say he wants to end things.

If you said, "I want to go shopping with my friends and then go to a movie" and he said, ""w/e i dont care, do whatever the ***** you want, i dont care, w/e", then he's just rude and cranky.

Answer 6

It means you should do whatever makes you happy regardless of what he thinks since he is telling you straight up he doesn't care. Now if he's just saying that to hurt your feelings or because he's an assh*le then that's his problem. Live your life, see other guys, forget him. He sounds way too immature anyway.

Answer 7

Oh, this is nothing to worry about!! Your boyfriend said that out of jealousy and anger because your not listening to him. He doesn't want you to go there. It's kind of like how our parents used to be when we were young- They finally get annoyed and yell that and hey, you have your way. I think this is a bad sign though because he might be TOO controlling..but than again it's obvious he got nothing on ya:)

Answer 8

iv said it in relationships be4...it means he superly cares..and hes so angry about what you did that he pretends not to at all to hurt you..its a defence mechinism..only problem is ...if you take it literally and go out and do stuff and come back, tell him..and tell him that he said he didnt care...he will dump you cause he really did care. Well w/e you did it shows you need to fix it...it sounds like you were argueing about hanging out with guy friends or going to a party and the fight got outta hand? you need to respect your man and his wishes....(for example) if he wanted to hang out with really hot friends that were girls and you said NO and he said oh well hes going to..how would you feel? so if he says no to you hanging out with guy friends then considering that.
I know that probably isnt what your problem is...but just think about w/e the problem is in reverse...if it was him and you said no. its not him trying to control you persay...its him trying to protect what you to have..it shows how much he cares about it if hes setting up guidlines...what if he really was like "eh do w/e" would you feel loved?

Answer 9

It could mean many things. That may have just been the end of your relationship, he doesn't want to be bothered with you right now, or he's upset at something you did.

It can be either or maybe both. Guys like that aren't worth it, I dated one like that. I let sh*t go on for too long and when I dumped him, it got really ugly.

Answer 10

Sounds to me like the prick is already with someone else and is trying to get out of your relationship the quickest way possible, by making you hate him.

Sorry lil sis, but he's already gone!

Aloha!

Answer 11

Sounds like it. Move on. If he won't have a conversation with you about it, what's the use?

That or he didn't want to do whatever you were talking about at that moment.