I'm bisexual,and I can see a woman in a bikini,whatever,and I don't go gaga over it,but men do.( I mean,I DO find women attractive,but in those instances,feels more pervy to me.)If they get a peek up a skirt,they loose their minds. Am I the only bi woman who doesn't find scantily clad women attractive? I find it more trashy,and unless they are on the beach or something,feel like it's inappropriate most times in public. I'd rather see a woman dressed in something nice,rather than trashy,maybe my standards are too high,lol. What do the bi women,and the straight guys think about this?
2006-07-21 07:25:38 · 22 answers · asked by dragonfly 4 in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
i think that it's normal, i get turned on by a woman wearing regular clothes. its the same with me and men too, i can see a guy on the beach in trunks and just be somewhat aroused, but dressed up really nice in a good pair of jeans!! yummy! it's not strange to be modest about what you desire, different things get different people going.
enjoy the best of both worlds!
2006-07-21 07:29:20 · answer #1 · answered by JerseyBleu 3 · 8⤊ 0⤋
I'm a bi girl and I think the same thing as you on this issue. I find the scantily clad women as a kind of insult to women's rights, unless it's on the beach or a like wise place. I would rather see a girl with an air of power to her, I find that much more attractive.
Oh and by the way, I just posted a question in the goverenment area so please go answer it so people from the GLBTQ area give an opinion too. The posted question: What do you think President George W Bush would do if one or both of his twin daughters turned out to be bi?
2006-07-21 14:37:34 · answer #2 · answered by MindStorm 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think that for lots of bi women, the attraction to other women is split between the other woman's personality and intelligence AND her physical appearance.For example, if I'm at the beach and I see a woman in a bikini, I might glance at her, but I won't feel any atraction. BUT, if I see her smiling, doing something fun or silly (as the people i am usually attracted to do!) or just standing out somehow, THEN I might find her attractive.
Men and women are both visual creatures, but it sometimes seems like men's eyes are directly wired to their...well, y'know ;-) while with women, our eyesight makes a detour through the brain first!
2006-07-21 14:33:01 · answer #3 · answered by ziz 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think it's probably more of a personal preference thing. But guys do seem to get more of a visceral reaction from physical appearance in the general sense. It seems to be linked to how the hormones work and such. What different guys are turned on by still varies between individuals. But society seems to encourage guys to act like animals; look at most beer commercials. This is one area where I wish women wouldn't strive so hard for equality. Some commercials are starting to portray women beer drinkers as just as stupid.
2006-07-21 14:33:55 · answer #4 · answered by Raffy_AdAstra 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am a bisexual male, and I sometimes feel attracted to women dressed in beach clothes, but I don't go gaga over it and broadcast it to everyone. I tend to experience more opposite sex attraction towards women dressed in uniform/sports kit for some reason. My attraction to guys works in a similar way. I don't think its a "high standards" thing.
2006-07-21 16:34:38 · answer #5 · answered by nemesis 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
When I get a sneak peek up a womans skirt, if she's attractive, I don't lose my mind at all! In fact, I'm rather focuse - ON GETTING UP INSIDE THAT!
I enjoy seeing a woman dressed up as well, though on some occasions I think their outfit might look better on my bedroom floor.
2006-07-21 23:15:05 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Straight Guy here. different guys have different preference. some like to peek, some like elegant dressed girl, some like wild, some like elder... etc. what i mean is there are no standard on what is more attractive. I like well-dressed girls, showing the curve are sexier than ever. I don't like to peek up a skirt... maybe i did when i was 14....(prob because i never saw what it was like...) but not now... not after 12 years... have seen everything..
2006-07-21 14:31:48 · answer #7 · answered by Lucas C 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think it's all a matter of taste and experience. You seem to go for the more classy and conservative girl and that's understandable. You don't mind that something is left to the imagination. Maybe it's also down to hormone levels. You may have less testosterone so react less to sheer physical traits and more mental and emotional ones. Just some thoughts.
2006-07-21 14:30:48 · answer #8 · answered by elchaffinch 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
the only scantily clad women i like to look at are:
Gisele Bundchen
Adrianna Lima
the rest should be under a burqa.
God bless.
2006-07-21 14:30:49 · answer #9 · answered by St. Anthony of Y!Answers 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think everyone has there prefrences and you described yours. It seems strange ot me but we are all different so who am i to judge. By your standard i'm pervy. I like attractive women scantily clad, dressed to the nines, in heans and trainers or naked I just like seeing women.
2006-07-21 14:31:59 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋