HAVE YOU EVER THOUGHT ABOUT WHAT IT WOULD BE LIKE HAVING SEX WITH ANOTHER GUY? HAVE YOU EVER DONE IT AND WOULD YOU DO IT AGAIN? WHAT ABOUT KISS ANOTHER GUY? WOULD YOU EVER ADMIT IT?
2006-07-21 07:15:53 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
THIS IS SERIUOS GUYS I HAVE A FRIEND WHOS NOT HANDLING WHAT HE DID WELL
2006-07-21 07:17:21 · update #1
WHY CAN'T YOU GUYS ANSWER IN A MATURE WAY AND NOT CALL SOMEONE A *******
2006-07-21 07:22:35 · update #2
Wow, look at all the "straight" dudes who secretly crave dick on here trying to scream "not me NOT ME" the loudest!
Tell your friend (yeah right) that it is as natural as breathing for men to do this. There are two types of people, those who can admit it and those who are scared to. Tell him to be a real man, meaning of course that he doesn't need anyone else's approval or permission to do as he pleases with his body. Shame is a sign of weakness, as it means you give a god damn what someone else thinks about how you are living YOUR life. If he really never wants to do it again - fine. But he did want to do it at the time, and that is OK. Who gives a sh*t what these bleating, tiny, cowardly "men" think while they live their small, useless little lives? Do what you want and never have regrets. Never.
2006-07-21 07:55:15 · answer #1 · answered by ? 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋
I have to confess I feel a strong rejection to the idea of myself having sex with another guy, or kissing them in the mouth or in a romantic way. That doesn't mean though that I disapprove of homosexuality. When I get an injection I always look the other way, because I'm too impressionable to see the needle coming into my arm. But I don't hate nurses. It's just I'm not made to be one. Well, that's about how I feel about homosexuality. I respect gays, but I couldn't be one. Now, if I were one, I would not even bother to hide it to anyone. I was not raised to hide that kind of things. I would admit it at once.
2006-07-21 14:25:46 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yuck, sorry dude (duette? what is correct here?) but I have never thought about it, other than the odd shiver when I see a rape scene in prison. I have never done it, and am even considering getting "DO NOT ENTER" tatooed on my butt! Now, I am not a homophobe as I have a couple of good friends who are gay, but it holds NO attraction for me. If one of your friends did 'something' and now regrets it, he needs to talk it over with an outside source, someone who is not a friend to get dispassionate feedback on the issue.
As for kissing, I have had to deal with some Russians, and it is customary for men to kiss in greeting, but if you mean on the mouth, or with tongue, the answer is again no.
Good luck with all that.
Oh, I would admit it in a forum like this, but I have not so I suppose you could call me a liar and say I am in denial. Oh well, see it as you see fit, doesn't matter to me.
2006-07-21 14:23:43 · answer #3 · answered by But why is the rum always gone? 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have had sex with another guy, so I guess that makes me bi rather than straight, even though I think of myself as straight, I would never admit it to anyone except my best mate, he was very understanding and even interested. I have heard its not unusual for a straight person to have or think about having sex with a member of the same sex. In my case I had full and oral sex with very attractive even pretty guy, we kissed and fondled, he was passive I was active, it lasted for hours and was one of the best sexual experiences I have ever had. YES I would do it again.
2006-07-21 14:36:35 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I am gay and my best friend is str8. I joking come on to him all the time and he of course turns me down...that is just part of our friendship and he is very comfortable with who he is. He is married to a ***** that never puts out...he told me once that if he were to ever try it, it would be with me....he did admit once that the fantasy was usually better then the actual act (I took it that he thought about it). I slept with a woman once, does that make me str8 or bi? I don't think so. It happened. If he did not like it, tell him to move on. What is there to be ashamed of. Like other things in life, he would never know if he had not tried it. No he knows he is comfortable around gay men, but not attracted to them and is not gay or bi.
He feels guilty about what happened bec society tells him he should....don't give them that power...
A very good friend once told me....No one can make you feel guilty unless you allow them to...
Tell him not to give other people that much power...
2006-07-21 14:56:55 · answer #5 · answered by M 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know lots of straight guys who have simply been curious about how the other half lives. Doesn't mean that they are gay. I think in a changing society where attitudes towards sexuality are becoming more liberal both men and women are feeling more free to experiment. Just because your friend had one gay experience doesn't define him as gay. And for those people who give you a hard time just tell 'em "Don't knock it till youv'e tried it."
2006-07-21 15:07:34 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
no, the concept is just filthy and unnatural. If you have such feelings, I would consider seeking professional help or trying to discuss this on a person to person level. Seeking an honest and heartfelt answer online is just not going to happen. I dont' even know why we're condoning this kind of talk online....
2006-07-21 14:50:29 · answer #7 · answered by wiseonekms 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Anybody who says they never thought about what it would be like is probably lying. I have thought about it, but always find the idea kind of repulsive. But then I start to wonder about how women can find the idea of having sex with a guy attractive if I find the idea so repulsive.
2006-07-21 14:21:03 · answer #8 · answered by rollo_tomassi423 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
fitboy, it is OK that you are gay. You will be judged but admiting it also allows you to get on with your life and find that guy out there that is right for you. good luck!
Why do you write in all caps? Just being gay doesn't mean you are excused from writing like everybody else.
2006-07-21 14:18:23 · answer #9 · answered by starcow 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ok,your friend had sexual relations with another man (was it you?) Well that doesn't matter. Anyway... It depends on the situation Was he drinking? I do stupid things when I drink. He really just needs to look inside himself. All the answers are there... no matter how scary it is to look there.
2006-07-21 15:50:39 · answer #10 · answered by 2crooked 2b straight 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋