My bestfriend is 19 and is dating a 16 year old. the main reason is he has money and will buy her what ever she wants. She treats him like the scum of the earth but she is his first girlfriend and doesn't know better. She keeps sleeping with other guys any won't tell him. She is even missing around with him? What should i do
2006-07-21 06:54:44 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Beauty & Style ➔ Fashion & Accessories
where not friends anymore!!!
2006-07-21 08:53:55 · update #1
Try talking to her and tell why its not right. You should talk to her boyfrend and tell him she is not treating you right and there is someone out there who will love him for himself.
2006-07-22 06:51:00 · answer #1 · answered by Nikki j 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Definitly find a different best friend.. c'mon now you cant surround yourself with such a hateful, selfish person.. what i know from my experiences is that the people im around is what i become more like..
I'd really hope to not see someone else be like your best friend. First, if she's all about the money she doesnt care about him, second she cheats on him and still messes around with him without telling him, that could be murder if she ends up with aids and gives it to him..
shes being soo messed up to him, if i were you.. i would break it down to the 16 year old guy.. and try and help him, give him advice on finding other girls that are more respectful, more deep, more about love, and liking the PERSON not money, just break it all down to him.. make him believe it.. no matter what.. and then stop talking to ur 19 year old friend. PLEASE!
2006-07-21 07:01:58 · answer #2 · answered by kakez 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Its obvious what she is doing is wrong, dirty and dishonest. Just tell her that what goes aorund comes around, and is going to catch up to her sooner or later. One day, she will too fall in love, and it might happen to her. So how would she feel if the person she cared about did that to her? in life, we pay for everything wrong that we do. trust in that! if she doens't listen, then don't worry too much about it, you did your part! just make sure she doesnt' get you involved in this situation.
~LATINA~
2006-07-21 07:05:46 · answer #3 · answered by A_Latina 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
What can you do? My sis gets involved with two guys at once. I have learned to give up. If your best friend wants to be sleazy, there is not much you can do to prevent it. You have already done enough. Now let her go her own way.
2006-07-21 07:00:02 · answer #4 · answered by funkymonkey 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like you're already doin the first thing - questioning your friends obvious lack of morals. My question is this - if your BEST friend has really crappy morals and uses people. How would you define a bad friend?
2006-07-21 07:00:04 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
1st of all, let me say "no offense"
but yo friend need to stop bein a hoe. she's hindering that boy from bein with someone that would love him back as he loves them.
2006-07-21 07:23:21 · answer #6 · answered by questioner 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You should steal him away from her and treat him like the king he is.
2006-07-21 06:58:25 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
grow up; in a few years he'll be doing the same thing to other women. life's a *****. he gets what he deserves for being a SUCKER!!
2006-07-21 07:07:01 · answer #8 · answered by FieryAngel 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Tell his parents. this could be considered statutory rape because he is a minor.
2006-07-21 06:59:11 · answer #9 · answered by Queen of the Dachshunds 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Why not talk to her boyfriend and tell him what she's doing to him
2006-07-21 06:58:47 · answer #10 · answered by Maestro 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋