My friends bf's are always hitting on me and flirtting with me try to touch me my friends bf's are always around me and they always break up with my friends for me but i'm not leading them on or anything but i'm not ganna change the way i drees either becase it took me a while to creat my own trend and thats kinda hard in an all girls private school so what should i do
2006-07-21 06:48:13 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
you need to let them know you are not interested and tell them to back off or better yeat just ingnore them and that will let them know you dont want to have nothing to do with them i mean there has to be something that you do or say that they act the way do around you and slap the **** out of them when they grab you
2006-07-21 06:53:33 · answer #1 · answered by hot maria 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is a tough situation. Because if you tell your friends they are going to give their boyfriend the benefit of the doubt and blame you. You said they always break up with your friends for you. I hope you are not hooking up with your friend's exes. If that is the case then maybe you are subconsciously sending them signals. If that is not the case, then if sounds like your friends need to screen their prospective boyfriends better. Do not change the way you dress for them, but remember to act appropriately when you are around them.
2006-07-21 07:00:13 · answer #2 · answered by wendy e 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell them you are not interested. dont change a thing about yourself just to get them off your back. guys will be guys they will look no matter what you say to them not much you can do about that. but if you dont like them touching you then you need to tell them to leave you alone that your not interested in them in the least bit. if they are hitting on you and going out with your friends id tell your gfs becasue thats not right they dont deserve to be treated that way nor do you deserve to be touched when its inappropriate.
2006-07-21 06:54:32 · answer #3 · answered by karmen0085 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Make sure when they touch you to nicely back away and say you are a good friend to their girlfriend. Say this to all of them, so and so is my good friend and I will not mess up things with her. Maybe let your friends know that this happening too. They should be with guys who are more respectful and not hitting on other girls.
2006-07-21 06:55:32 · answer #4 · answered by sistermoon 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell the b.fs to leave you alone. If you were a true friend you would tell them their sorry b.f. are hitting on you. You do not have to change the way you dress to say no and to tell them to leave you alone. You may want to change your body language around them, do not flirt with them or give them the wrong signal.
2006-07-21 06:53:44 · answer #5 · answered by housewives5 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just be blunt with the guys. Tell them that you can't date them because they went out with your friends. Tell them that you don't want to hurt your friends, so they can't flirt with you. Don't try and sugar coat it... and be strong when you say it, otherwise they might not believe you and continue hitting on you.
2006-07-21 06:53:42 · answer #6 · answered by ~~$Em-J$~~ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well why dont you talk to the guys i agree you shouldnt change ur style or ne thing but if they dont stop doing that 2 u then i think that you should tell ur frendz cuz if they find out them selfs then it could cause ur frend ship nd that way u girls dont get hurt
2006-07-21 06:55:21 · answer #7 · answered by lil` miss sexy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
make it right. tell them that you are not interested in them and what makes them think that if they left there present Gf for you they wont do it again once they get what they want and find a "newer model" figuratively speaking. They are @ssholes and need to get a life.
2006-07-21 06:53:38 · answer #8 · answered by BigDaddy82 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ok well firstly be flattered! but just make sure your friend knows that its her boyf cumin on2 u not u goin on2 him
jus blank him all the time and hopefully he will back off a bit gd luk
xx
2006-07-21 06:55:14 · answer #9 · answered by beckyzbonkers 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe when she's with her bf. you should give them space and not be in the same room with them.so that way her bf wont hit on you.good luck
2006-07-21 06:57:04 · answer #10 · answered by Angel sent from heaven 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋