2006-07-21 06:43:46 · 30 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Becasue some men are assholes.
2006-07-21 06:48:34 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, not ALL men do that. And sometimes cheating is a sign of a deeper problem, but I'm not so sure whether or not it's some loss-of-love problem in your case. It sounds (from your question) like you maybe haven't been married that long or he did this as soon as you got married? He just wanted a housekeeper, probably. I'd get the heck out of there. You can find a man who will commit fully. If I haven't guessed your scenario right, and he is having a long-term affair with one person, and you've been together for a long time, and it started after many years, well, he's in denial about how he feels about you. He does not love you. However, basically the answer is the same. Split up. You'll both be happier.
2006-07-21 07:10:37 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Lots of hatred here. I have to tell you something and be perfectly honest. Things change from the day you get married. People change. You've probably changed. Here's the thing, some men will cheat because they can, they always have and always will. Others won't cheat no matter what. Then there are those who don't want to but do because of changes that have happened. When people date, there tends to be lots of intimacy. After marriage, that can slip, having children and careers becomes important. If you aren't having sex much and he wants to more often and no compromise is met, you should expect that he'll eventually cheat. Remember, we all only get one chance at life, he may not want to go through the rest of his having sex once a month or less. Ron White said it best, "I'm a pretty good dog but if youdon't pet me once in a while, I'm gonna run off"
2006-07-21 06:52:28 · answer #3 · answered by matt b 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The bigger question is why to women let men treat them like that? Just read some of these questions, there all the same . How do I get him to take me back after he cheated? or something like that. Why do women like the Bad Boys, while the old saying Nice guys finish last is true. We don't all cheat and and around. Some of us are true blue.
2006-07-21 06:50:49 · answer #4 · answered by rudytute 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Those are the men that don't really want to be married. A man who wants to be married will commit to you whole-heartedly..mind, body and soul...if he is a cheater, he will always be a cheater, and marriage will not change that about him, it is just a personality defect. Not all men cheat.
2006-07-21 06:47:11 · answer #5 · answered by manderin 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not all men do. But I think a lot of them just like the attention from other females. It's all about EGO!!!!! And they probably do love you but, they like to get all of this attention for other girls rather than from their wives. Some of them don't know the meaning of the word love. But then, some women don't either. You can't really love somebody is you love yourself better.....
2006-07-21 06:51:56 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well let me start out by saying this.... Not all men are like this... secondly ... why are you letting your man do this.. third.... both men and women sometimes have to take time fom each other.... you need to sometimes let him go do stuff with his buddies and someties you need to have time with your girls.... fourth...
if ur man wanna hang out with his buddies why not asking him if you could come along... you'll bring your girls .... to meet some of the guys.. maybe.. (there's more fun when you see more famliar faces)
2006-07-21 07:22:48 · answer #7 · answered by richard b 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
women always try to change men , you need to go back and be the fun outgoing person he fell in love with, not the married boring stay at home ,go to bingo for fun kind of girl you turned yourself into.Go with him have crazy sex on the hood of your car in the middle of the night with him, go skinny dipping with him do something that shows your not the living dead.
2006-07-21 06:49:32 · answer #8 · answered by ronchoward 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
why do alot of these answers put the blame on you? I guess it is just typical to not take responsibility for ones own actions......though it could be something you do or don't do, that is no reason to now hold to yours vows. However, you answered you own question....they are men.....not all do....but enough to make us good ones look bad
2006-07-21 06:51:18 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
They have someone to keep their place clean and the food stocked. They are not marrying for the right reasons. They think maybe they are doing you a favor. They don't think about your feelings.
2006-07-21 06:46:13 · answer #10 · answered by B D 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
all men don't do that...in fact I would say very few do. but I would think a women would know before they get married that their man isn't all he's cracked up to be.
2006-07-21 06:47:34 · answer #11 · answered by USC Fan 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋