I have been seeing this guy for nearly 4 yrs now but hes married, hes splitting up with her now tho, my parents dont no about any of this, im 21. he is 35, hes found a new job and asked me to go with him and work there with him but its a different town quiet far from where i live and i dont no anyone out there, he says eventually we will live together, but for now i would have to stay in the staff accomidation which is really nice, should i stay? or should i go? im really unhappy where i work at the moment.
2006-07-21 06:28:07 · 5 answers · asked by xangelx_xx 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
anyone had similiar experiences? how did it turn out?
2006-07-21 06:53:05 · update #1
help help help
2006-07-21 07:05:32 · update #2
We can all give you our opinions here and some will bash you for this and some will just call you plain crazy, but the point of it all is that it's your life and you do what makes you happy. Even though this guy is married your the only one who knows your relationship with him. Sometimes we do find the right guy, but he just happens to be married. I'm not saying this is right, but it happens everyday to people. Please make sure this is thr right thing for you to do. You don't want to get down there and he changes his mind on you and gets back with his wife. Is he going through the process of a divorce any time soon. Once he is doing this I would feel a little better about moving there with him. This decision is yours to make in the end, but you really don't want to have regrets in the future. I have been where your at. The same amount of time so I know how hard it is to think straight where this is concerned when two people like this are really in-love with each other. This just might work out for you who knows? Make a decsion and stick by it.
2006-07-21 07:08:11 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ok so you have been the other women? What makes you think that there won't be another women when you move your life to a town you know nothing about??? I'm sorry I know this for a fact!! He is a cheater and once a cheater always a cheater. Also your 21 why would you want to be the other women??? Get your own man stop taking others and messing up there family.
2006-07-21 13:34:41 · answer #2 · answered by browneyegirl 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well I say if you love him you should go.I mean if it's not what you want you can always come back.i'm 18 and i'm engaged to a 31 year old,and I'd go anywhere in the world for him.My parents didn't agree to me and him at first,but once they figured out that it didn't really matter what they said cause i'm an adult,they began to love him like a son.I hope you follow your heart and it works out the same for you.Good luck!
2006-07-21 13:50:39 · answer #3 · answered by oldschool_southern_girl 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all Karma is a BI***CH and what goes around comes around. If you stay with his man you'll regret it later on when he does the same thing to you. No doubt!
2006-07-21 13:31:51 · answer #4 · answered by ani2525 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't you think he might do the same to you?
2006-07-21 13:35:29 · answer #5 · answered by teresa l 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋