I have to go to this girl's house today.
Our moms think we're best friends and we have nothing in common and she is so quiet, she's like ANTI-SOCIAL and never talks. I usually pretend to be happy around her but today im in a bad mood because I only got a few hours sleep. I have to sleep over at her house,
how do i pretend to like her?
p.s. Don't answer by trelling me i have bad grammer or the question is stupid, you "don't know" or I sound too young. Just answer the question.
2006-07-21 06:22:33 · 19 answers · asked by kelllsssssss 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Do not be so mean if you want nice answers.
Do you trust your mom? Then be honest. Does the girl feel the same way you do? Come on stop all of the games and be HONEST!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
2006-07-21 06:25:39 · answer #1 · answered by hummingbird 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't pretend to be happy, just go there, hang out, see if you can play some games or something. If not just read a book or find something to do. If you don't like her anymore (if you ever did), then I think that you should talk to your mother. Why do you have to stay there in the first place? Pretending isnt gonna help things, so for your own sake, if you have to deal with it this time, then do it, but definatly let your mom know how you feel.
2006-07-21 06:26:51 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Here are some suggestion I feel could be helpful:
1) smile
2) focus on your tone of voice when you talk: make sure your tone is happy and positive
3) focus on using positive body language: make sure the palms of your hands face towards the person, this shows your accepting the person, a person that makes another happy accepts the person. Make sure your body language is relaxed
4) Relax in General: When your unhappy your muscles are tens
5) Choose positive wording when you talk.
6) Laugh or chuckle (even if you fake it) before you encounter the person because laughter automatically bring endorphins in your brain that allow you to automatically feel and look happier.
You should recognize what it is that makes you feel unhappy about the person and try to resolve it so you don't have to hide your feelings. Try to eliminate any bad feelings you have toward the other person by working the out in your inner self or with the person by communicating about it. If you are nervous around the person try to be more confident. If you are shy I may not even hurt to tell the person that so the person will know. If it's another thing the problem could be completely worked out by simply communicating. This will eliminate any feelings that you may be trying to cover.
I hope this helps
2006-07-21 06:36:58 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I act so i can help you pretend your not you pretend your someeles and there happy today when i'm tired and don't want to do another take or i want to leave the set i think about the money and how upset my parents will be pretend your getting paid a lott k if you have any questions just e-me k see yah hope you and your friend can have fun today
2006-07-21 06:38:58 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
She probably never says anything because she knows you don't like her and she probably doesn't like you much, either. Have you tried bringing up something you could both be interested in? You can't be defensive. If you want to try to get along with her, you need to try to draw her out. What does she like? You could also try telling your mother you don't like her and that would solve the whole issue. Being nice can make a big difference.
2006-07-21 06:26:27 · answer #5 · answered by gilgamesh 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If she is so quiet you start conversations. and who knows you might end up being best Friends. didn't pretend to like any one it is not nice to do to people just get to know her and see what happens
2006-07-21 06:29:00 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be honest with the mothers, there could be something wrong with her or she doesnt like you either lol
talk to hers first, learn a bit about her past
try to actually do something she likes to do, maybe you will break the weird shell
2006-07-21 06:25:32 · answer #7 · answered by BeerFace McPoopenStein 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wow...I can totally tell you have an attitude!
Just tell your mom that you're tired and that you need a nap. Don't go over to that girl's house just to be phony.
2006-07-21 06:25:53 · answer #8 · answered by virgogirl 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
fake a smile and hope the time passes. what do you think the world does 8 hours a day while at work.
2006-07-21 06:26:33 · answer #9 · answered by SunshineSparkles1976 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well dear, you need not pretend to be happy around someone, if you are not ,you not! likeness, love, hatre, joy, happiness all this comes from the inner most mind, it a feeling that is created into one, if you dont like her, then keep your distance.
2006-07-21 06:30:16 · answer #10 · answered by nina g 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What kind of game are you playing with this girl. Either be her friend or stop being a fake. You are not doing her or yourself any favors.
2006-07-21 06:25:53 · answer #11 · answered by omahapamela 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋