Tell me why is it that sometimes you put your trust in someone and all they do is lie. Then they go on saying it wont happen again but they just keep on doing it over and over I'm I the idiot for believing in him.But maybe it's not all of you'll but almost half I bet.So tell me why? Yeah Im hurt so what!!!!!!!
2006-07-21 06:15:37 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Unfortunately, you are just having bad luck in that dept. These people are not worth your time. I know you and anyone around you should feel blessed. Not just because of your classic beauty, but because you are a very kind, loving, and good-hearted person who takes the time to make sure everyone else is happy first. You deserve so much more and you will get that in time. Patience is difficult sometimes but necessary and worth it. Remember, it is said that "It takes a minute to find a special person, an hour to appreciate them, a day to love them and a lifetime to forget them."
2006-07-22 02:01:50 · answer #1 · answered by Pimp_Slapper 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Sorry, some guy was fool enough to hurt you. I don't believe all guys lie, I certainly don't to my wife, and I've never lied to girls I dated before that. Unfortunately to some degree I think lying has become almost an accepted part of a lot of relationships. So many people just like you give a guy so many multiple chances that the guys figure that what they are doing wrong can't be so bad and must actually be ok because you don't ever really leave them. The key is to not let a guy get away with bad behavior. Call him out on it and be willing to walk away no matter how cute he is or how wonderful you think he is. We all make mistakes so giving someone a second chance is ok but beyond that your just telling them what they did really wasn't so bad.
2006-07-21 13:21:36 · answer #2 · answered by rkrell 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hi dear!!
I can undrstand u r hurt. I am a guy. & i just wna tell u 1 thing that its the misdeed & bad work of just some guys which makes all other guys not trustworthy. Its true that there r more bad (selfish & watever worst u can think of ) guys in this world rather than good ones. & the guy who broke ur trust has just taught u a lesson to be careful from now on. & not to trust ne1. trust is 1 thing which takes time to develop but only few can maintain it. & those who do maintain it r gem of a person. well neway i dont thik u will be satisfied with this. but if u need ne kind of help do feel free to contact me at stylez.kool@gmail.com byeeee
2006-07-21 13:22:50 · answer #3 · answered by $tYLeZ 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its not all of us, I know that. Why lie about something just so you can lie again to cover up the other lie. It gets you no where. I can't answer for most men but I can answer for my self. You will find someone that will be true to you. I hope you realize it when you find him and never let him go. Most of all, Don't be hurt over a jerk like this one. You deserve so much better and some day you will find him. Good luck
2006-07-21 13:20:57 · answer #4 · answered by bigdog_0032 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you should guard your trust and test a person's honesty first.
Trust is like an investment, it takes time. You want it to gain and goes well, but sometimes it goes bad, that is when you have to use your instinct and act on good judgment.
I think some people are very smart, but they lacks judgment. I am not saying it is necessarily you, but it just that judgment comes from experience. It is more of a wisdom than knowledge or intelligent.
2006-07-21 13:27:20 · answer #5 · answered by ? 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Men repeatedly disrespect, lie to and cheat on us women because we allow it. If we would set our boundaries from the onset of our involvements and stick to those guidelines being very explicit that certain violations of those guidelines (cheating, hitting, calling names, trying to control, etc.) are grounds for immediate termination of any dealings with a particular man, then we'd save ourselves a lot of heartache. I know that it hurts to have your feelings disregarded and used as a weapon against you, but that is how a great deal of men operate. Keep your head up and your eyes open so that next time you can spot a snake in the grass by his hiss before he actually bites you and fills you with his venom.
2006-07-21 13:26:09 · answer #6 · answered by intentionalmasterpiece 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I've found that some people are just pathological liars and don't have the capacity of telling the truth. Sucks but that's why you have to get to know someone before dedicating your heart to them. Don't worry, we've all been through it. Takes a few bad ones to recognize a good one.
2006-07-21 13:23:06 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have answered your own question.
Because you keep believing in him.
For some reason, your need to believe him is stronger than your need to stop the pain of his lies. You fear being alone and yet you isolate yourself each time you give him another chance.
You deserve better. There is nothing wrong with being alone foe awhile. Fill the void with true friends and family.
2006-07-21 13:27:23 · answer #8 · answered by lunatic 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
A better question is why do people lie. Lying is not gender specific and you should spare yourself the pain and get with someone who is much more capable of telling the truth, they do exist.
2006-07-21 13:20:25 · answer #9 · answered by Shikibeeks 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First, you should not have let him get away with it the first time.... yes, many guys, if not most, will lie....and why? I do not know.....it is hard to keep track of lies......maybe it is because they don't want to lose you......and what they are doing would make you dump them
2006-07-21 13:20:44 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋