I couldn't wait to have a baby. Now, I'm not so sure. I cry all the time and feel hopeless. I don't know why.
2006-07-21 05:43:15 · 18 answers · asked by Beth R 2 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Newborn & Baby
Postpartum depression is very real and very painful. I know, because I suffered from it for months.
The first thing to do is reach out. You've done it here, but do it with your doctor and those close to you. Tell them what you're going through. Your doctor may prescribe meds, but phsyical and emotional support are equally as important.
There is an organization called Postpartum International, with information on support groups around the world. These can be highly effective, as they are groups of women going through what you are going through. To know you're not alone is critical right now. And remember, this will pass. You will feel better one day.
Good luck and please remember to take care of yourself.
2006-07-21 05:52:39 · answer #1 · answered by SurferRose 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Depression is a serious condition and anyone who tells you different has never experienced it. I am so sorry that you are having this overshadow your joy of having a new baby. Postpartum depression, what we used to call baby blues, is a very real and painful thing that is made worse by the sleep deprivation that you are experiencing right now. Talk to your Dr right away and see what is the best way for you to deal with this problem. There are lots of treatments out there that don't effect breastfeeding. Make sure you are eating right I know how easy it is to forget to do some of the most elementary things when you are so focused on the new baby. Remember there is no shame in getting help with this. I know that you will be fine but the sooner you do something about this condition the sooner you will be able to enjoy your new precious arrival.
2006-07-21 06:34:19 · answer #2 · answered by G-Mommy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is very common for women to have baby blues and/or postpartum depression. Dont feel like you are a bad mother or anything, because having this is much more common than you think. You DO need to go see your doctor though, who will be able to tell you if you are having a mild case of the "Baby Blues" or if you actually have suffering from postpartum depression. Either way, the doctor will be able to help you (giving advice, medication, etc) that will make you feel MUCH BETTER!!! Dont wait, the longer you wait the worse you will feel!! Go see your doctor and get help, and dont feel bad about it! Getting help is the BEST thing you can do for both yourself and your new baby! Good Luck, and Congratulations on the new baby!!
2006-07-21 05:53:57 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It appears that your baby is 8 months old. If this is the fact, and you are experiencing postpartum depression, you need to visit your doctor. Don't be afraid or ashamed. Just go, for the sake of your baby and your own peace of mind. At least you've realized that something isn't right.
They will probably give you a light antidepressant to help you feel better for awhile. It's OK. It will help and this will pass.
Just do it. Don't wait. Start enjoying life again. Whatever you do, don't listen to Tom Cruise!
Blessings!
Here's a link for information if you haven't already checked it out.
http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Postpartum_depression
2006-07-21 06:00:47 · answer #4 · answered by nighthawk 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is very common, but there is help for it. Go see your doctor and tell him how bad you feel. I was the same way for about the 1st six months, I would just start crying for no reason. I eventually came out of it. You also have to remember this is a very trying time, especially if this is your 1st baby, your sleep schedule is messed up, you all those hormones, you have someone else to take of, very stressful. Try to relax, sleep when the baby sleeps, and if possible try to exercise. Put the baby in a stroller and go for a long walk. But you really should go see your doctor!
2006-07-21 05:49:27 · answer #5 · answered by Flower Girl 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well I will say this first off congratulations, you have just done one of the most important things in this world, gave a child a life. You should pat yourself on the back for that. I have two boys and now 3 months with my third. It is hard to be a mom to this little life that needs you for everything, but hang in there you have got past a very hard part birth. I will say this get out, go walk go to a friends house. Ask the father to watch baby and you go out with friends or family for an hour. Take time and love your baby and yourself. Its very hard to be a mom especially with your body trying to go back to just you. If you can't seem to be ok go see your doctor take your time and know we've all been there you will be ok. Motherhood is lifes greatest gift, that never stops giving back. Most of all Pray!
God bless and take care!!!!
2006-07-21 07:02:48 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-05-15 02:24:59 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It;s a normal thing just remember if you feel like hurting your baby put him her in crib and take a shower step outside for a minute..It won't hurt. Or ask a friend or grandma to help youout until you feel like you again...It does get better ask any mom whos been there...They will tell ya. Call your dr and ask him to write you something but keep in mind antidepressants can take a week or so to work..Just get out of the house or have someone help you out in the mean time. This is normal and alot of new moms experience this it does get better believe mei have been there...
2006-07-21 10:03:26 · answer #8 · answered by *bossy* 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you need to see your doctor if symptoms last longer than a couple of weeks. Since the weather is nice I have also heard that putting baby in a stroller and going out for daily walks helps. Exercise helps release endorphines, which can boost mood.
2006-07-21 05:47:29 · answer #9 · answered by Ryan's mom 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to get out of the house. ALONE. there are support groups everywhere. Join one. For real!
Babies are great. Especially when they are wanted. You'll see It'll be fabulous once you can relte to others who are having the same problems.
Hell you can email me i fyou just need some one to talk to...just a suggestion.
Congrats on the new addition to your family.
2006-07-21 05:54:16 · answer #10 · answered by hotrod luvin princess 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋