How to have succesfull life?

Question

It is impossible to be the best in every thing, I've tried it before,but i got no result. I Wanted to be the best programmer(JAVA, PHP, VB, ....) , The best in music(playing piano), The best in foreign languages(French, Russian!) , The best in education and ..... but i couldnt succeed!
Whats your suggestion?

Answer 1

It good to know that you are trying to do the best at what you can do. However keep in mind that you can't be the best at everything. Focus on what you are good at or what your gifted at and work on being the best at that. Make sure it's something you enjoy doing. Naturally people do better at things they enjoy.

Here's some daily habits you can fallow that will help make you successful.

1) Be proactive
2) Think Win Win
3) Do things to make your self feel good and trust your self
4) Do things to make other feel good about you and trust you
5) Start everything with an end in mind
6) Seek first to understand someone before you have them understand you
7) Rest, Rejuvenate, have fun, and feed your sole.
8) Balance your living with Work, Play, Family, Friends, Fun, and Rest
9) Learn goal setting

I personally think being a happy and loving person is the most important, and the list to be second.

For more help read the book called The 7 Habits of Highly Effective People, by Franklin Covey, it's a very good easy to read book that tells people how to be successful. There's a teenager version of that book to.

I hope this helps buddy.

Answer 2

It all depends what u c as success, some ppl think its being happy, others think its growing old with someone u love.
I need to sit down n think about whats really important to u

Answer 3

chose an area
and give it your all
is better to be known because you are the best at something, than to not be know because you failed at everything.
My philosophy