2006-07-21 04:58:10 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Trying to Conceive
what i mean is going to give up completly!
2006-07-21 04:58:42 · update #1
honey i know how you feel because i have been ttc for 7 years with one failed attemt (misscarrige) and there are plenty of times that i just want to say to hell with it. everyone is right though you cant stress about it to much. just stop and breathe and take some time for yourself. if you stress you will end up taking it out on everyone around you including your man. i know this for a fact because i almost lost my soon to be hubby last week all for what stress and the fact that i just couldnt take it anymore.
relax and like i said take some quiet time for yourself to think and relax.
all the best for you hugs
2006-07-21 05:34:18 · answer #1 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just to let you know...you are not alone...and I know how hard it is...
I've been trying well we have been trying for 3 years now. And it doesn't get any easier.
I tried to cope with not ever getting pregnant and thinking about how there are good things with that...
Recently I made myself go to the Ob/GYN...I found a new doctor all women which I like...very friendly and smart. AFter many tests and waiting...they think I have Polycistic Ovarine Disorder. And I was put on pills...now I'm regular and hopefully ovulating and soon going to go on Clomid.
I am trying to stay positive even when it gets hard to be.
My husband gets to hear me cry and listen to my heart breaking each and every time. I don't like to take tests anymore because of that alone...So I'm waiting till I am late or have a good reason to take a test...which I actually just did two days ago...cuz I kept feeling sick now for two weeks...got my hopes up...spent money on tests and negative...so the next day I started...
oh well...you can't really control it.
I wish you good luck and try your hardest to focus on your love and your husband...and be happy with or without a baby for now.
:)
2006-07-21 13:36:19 · answer #2 · answered by Apple Blossom 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How would you like to bet that as soon as you give up your dreams come true. This could be a test for you to see how much you really want it. Relax. I'm in your same shoes, but I want it too much to actually give up. I know one day it will all pay off. Just stop worrying and don't think about it as much. Did you try reading books and taking tips from people? Good luck to you and don't give up on what you love.
2006-07-21 12:07:50 · answer #3 · answered by momma1107 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
how long have you been trying? sometimes it can take up to a year to conceive.....you could be trying to hard and stressing out way too much.....you just need to relax and have fun....the best time to try is a week and half to two weeks from the first day of your last period and to do it every other day.....but make it fun and stress free not a chore...if you have been trying for more then a year just take you and your man to the doctors and find out what's been keeping you from getting pregnant....good luck to you i hope that you will soon have the good news of a baby on the way and don't give up it will happen when it is suppose to.
2006-07-21 12:16:18 · answer #4 · answered by beautiful 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hey girl relax. Never give up in life cuz then u will just probably never get anything done. Nothing good in life comes as easy as we might want it to. We have to wok to get what we want to just don't give up! Who knows what if it was to happened the next time and u give up? Then u will always have the regrets wondering what would have happened if u never gave up. Don't let that happened. I say Keep Trying and u will be amaze.
2006-07-23 17:35:14 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Oh sweetie don't do that, you don't know how many negative tests I had before I got a positive one, it felt like I was never ever going to get pregnant, my husband was even condiering adoption and next thing, whenever we were not expecting it, I was pregnant, God did not give up on us, he died for us!
2006-07-21 12:50:09 · answer #6 · answered by Lilly 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Please don't give up. My husband & I tried for over 15 years to have kids. We tried lots of Doctors and treatments. We finally came to the conclusion that we were never going to have children of our own and decided to do something wild to take our minds off it. So we bought a Harley and hit the road. 2 Weeks after our big purchase we discovered that we were pregnant!!! So we sold the harley and now have 2 great kids. If it happens that you don't get pregnant remember their are lots of kids who need homes in the world. Over the time we were trying my Hubby and I were foster parents it helped us alot. So please don't give up your dream!!!!!!!!!!!!
2006-07-21 13:22:36 · answer #7 · answered by miss_nikki214 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Since I do not know what tests you are referring to.. I can only surmise.... pregnancy?? If that is it.. do not give up.. it will happen but cut out the state of being OVER anxious..
2006-07-21 13:22:28 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, Hon, don't give up. Things will happen in it's own time. Romantice dinnner, candle light, nice music, rose petels, and your set, if it don't work, don't be discouraged. Take care. Relax.
2006-07-21 12:04:30 · answer #9 · answered by vmbbfreak06 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't give up. Have you been to a doctor about the issue? I'm sorry that it's not working for you.
2006-07-21 12:01:55 · answer #10 · answered by guineasomelove 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋