i love him before his marraige and nw he realize that he commit a mistake now he loves me a lot and want me to be his wife
2006-07-21 04:46:55 · 24 answers · asked by chudail 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Yes honey, sorry to disapoint you but men are like that. Think for instance that he tells you he does not love her and wants to marry you instead but obviously he does not tell her, if he did then believe me she would be out of there. The next lie will be that he wanted to leave her but she got pregnant on purpose. All the time you spend with him will only put you on the loosing side becuas they act so well you start believing and sadly falling and it will cost you tear after tears. You will drown in the same river you cry out. He married her. He Knew you but choose her and sees the love you feel for him in your eyes so wants a peice of you now becuase men get tired of eating what is cooked home. Don't fall for him. You are worth so much more. A young, responsible man that will love you and choose you from thousands and take you to the altar and promise you love and faithfullnes. The man that does gives you that is the one that will love you and make sure everyday that you are happy and that you lack nothing. Compare it to a niece or brother. You love that 6 month old baby that you will put your head to crash on the tile beore his little body hits it. You must understand a person that loves you will make sure everyghting he does is to make you his own little happy wife.
2006-07-21 05:12:58 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yawn! I love you baby. I know now that I made a mistake by marrying her. Sure I'll get a divorce but not right away. I just need time to get my stuff in order. I do love you honey and I want to show you my love everytime we see each other. Oh,that's her on the phone now.I have to go.I'll call you when I get a chance.... Get Real! If in fact he ever does get a divorce and marries you he will do the same to you and tell the other woman the same old boring lies that he's telling you now. He's a user and you're the loser.
2006-07-21 11:58:07 · answer #2 · answered by charlie_the_carpenter 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ok you probably should have told him you loved him you know BEFORE he got married, but i can feel your pain. Because i care about someone that i'm 'not supposed to be with' it's horrible that you each love one another and are so far apart. I would talk to him about divorce. On the other hand he is a man. and i don't know how much you trust him, but if he married someone and now he wants to marry you he might just want some. but if you really love him then you should do what i said : ask about divorce.
P.S. you might have a mad woman on your case though.
2006-07-21 11:54:52 · answer #3 · answered by missing love 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
In the US it's against the law to have more than one wife, so until he's a single man again (if that occurs) stay away from him...
Treat others as you'd like to be treated...would you want another woman chasing after your husband? If not, then leave this guy alone because he IS the husband of another woman.
...and consider this...if he'd dump her to be with you, are you so sure he wouldn't some day dump you to be with someone else?
Think about it...
2006-07-21 11:51:39 · answer #4 · answered by . 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
wow, that is a situation you might want to cancel the subsrciption issues b/c youe full of them. Nay, take it easy if you'll two are really meant to be then don't worry about it. Eventually he will get divorced and finalize the thing he has got right now and will be able to make a honest realtionship with you, wish you the best, God Bless
2006-07-21 12:03:41 · answer #5 · answered by lasugarfree 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He is playing with you. If he loved you in the first place he would have married you. If he is cheating on her, he would cheat on you. Forget him and get some morals. How would you like it if some chic was messing with your husband? He chose his wife and you need to leave him alone and if he decides to divorce her, then it is his decision and then he is fair game. Until then, butt out and leave that poor woman's husband alone.
2006-07-21 12:16:54 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Oh darn, he just realized he loves you! Please! He just wants someone on the side. If you guys are sleeping together and he does divorce his wife for you, how long before he's telling her the same thing. Wake up and send him packong.
2006-07-21 12:25:32 · answer #7 · answered by bride2b 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Okay, but does he love you enough to divorce his wife. Otherwise, you are setting yourself up for a major disappointment. Don't let him have his cake and eat it too. If it's love, it will still be love, when he's divorced.
2006-07-21 11:51:31 · answer #8 · answered by Dancer3d 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask him. How long will he take to realize that loving you was also a mistake? And its your choice that you want to be with him for that long or leave him right now.
2006-07-21 11:51:09 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
No he don't if he wanted you to be his wife he would have married you.He just wants to sleep around and knows you don't have morals and will do anything.
If he truly loves you he would wait till the divorce to be with you.
2006-07-21 11:50:18 · answer #10 · answered by Lilly K 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋