Have you had an affair and need someone to talk to who wont give you a hard time?

Question

I have recently had a wonderful affair with a man I've been attracted to for years. We were both married and there was no question of either of us leaving our partners. We have been friends for ages but the physical chemistry between us was too much. It lasted a year and ended because of circumstances out of our control. Neither of us wanted it to end. I will always love him . I am devasted to lose him and am going through a kind of grieving process made harder because I can't talk to anyone about it. We gave to each other something that was missing in our marriages,

Answer 1

and sad to say take it to your grave trust noone the one person whom u thinh u can trust will be the first to betray you especially your best hriends sisters brothers if you miss him that much call him to say hello there is nothing wrong with that obviously u went out for a reason not to hurt your other half was your hubby so faithful

Answer 2

Sometimes we only are left with the memories. They can be painful but look at them as a gift. Good Luck. I have been married for many years and never have been faced with that sort of situation. I hope never to either and I don't envy you.

Answer 3

well try an put that back in your marriage work at your marriage again and then you wont need to do that trust me its hard but if you wanna talk about it just email me....... an i'll talk to you so you can soert it out.

Answer 4

you should get a divorce. that is not fair to your partner at all. would you like it if that happened to you. you need to move on and tell your husband what you did.

Answer 5

how would you feel if this were the other way around? What if your husband cheated and you never knew about it? how hurt would you be?

Answer 6

what a b1tch you are