I've dated him for 9 months and he proposed to me June 22nd before he went off to West Point Military Academy. I really love him and he loves me. We've been through alot in our relationship which made us even closer to one another, but my question is: since were getting married in 2010 when we both graduate, will our love last until 2010?
2006-07-21 04:23:45 · 24 answers · asked by Blue&Gold_Raider 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Im not able to talk to him right now because he is going through Basic Training, so its kind of hard not being able to hear his voice like Im use to!
2006-07-21 04:32:50 · update #1
You sound way to young to be asking. Live a little first, ok.
2006-07-21 04:26:56 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If it's love then yes it will last. Time will only tell. Don't stress on the things that should be the least stressful of life. Love shouldn't make you wonder or question anything. Don't be in a hurry to get married. You've both had a lifetime of becoming yourselves, 9-10 months is barely a drop in the barrell enough time to be able to "know" another person. Worry about more important things, don't add stress to the relationship by worrying about the relationship!
2006-07-21 06:09:34 · answer #2 · answered by tiff2conl 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can't even get to know someone in 10 months. It takes at least a few years to fully know someone.
My advice is no.
You're not even going to get married for another 4 years - so why bother getting engaged? It's just drama waiting to happen.
Just wait out college and see how things go. This is a time in both your lives where you will do the most changing and maturing. Definitely put off marraige talks until you are both out of school and know what directions you are headed in.
2006-07-21 04:29:41 · answer #3 · answered by Nightwish 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you in elementary terms get as lots out of marriage as you place into it. in simple terms being married for the sake of being married would not make anybody happy. So do you need to be happy after one 3 hundred and sixty 5 days? not in case you and your husband are not doing something to make yourselves happy. pass lower back to why you needed to get married. not unavoidably on your contemporary husband yet what it fairly is you needed. as quickly as you artwork out what you like out of marriage and existence... pass get it! the exciting area is getting your husband to do a similar element. Then the the two one among you may help one yet another gain each and each others objectives. the great area approximately being married is that in case you ultimately finally end up taking a step backwards somewhat than forwards (and this might ensue many situations), you have somebody who's dedicated to stick with you (and you to him). have exciting which incorporate your marriage and your new husband. P.S. notice that ex is now out of the photograph....
2016-11-02 11:31:33 · answer #4 · answered by ai 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hope for the best, it's four years away so a lot can change between people, just keep in contact as much as possible! Call one another and write just make sure you don't forget about each other!!
2006-07-21 04:27:46 · answer #5 · answered by Lola 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Darling it's only 2006, how should we know if ur last will last to 2010.... If it does then best wishes.. That gives u plenty of time to get to know him even more... Just make sure u know everything about him including what's on his credit report...
2006-07-21 04:27:35 · answer #6 · answered by Queen D 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
frist i would say 10 months is long enough to know if you love someone.2010 is a few years away you will know for sure at that point. my concern is if you have to ask this question are YOU sure this is what YOU want.
2006-07-21 04:55:57 · answer #7 · answered by mississippi queen 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is your decision. Think better before to get marriedand try to find the answer at this questions: Do you love him? Does he loves you? Can you affort a house? So... try to find this answers and if the all answers are YES then u can marry him
2006-07-21 04:32:43 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
if your love is true to each other than there is nothing that can stop this marriage not even time!!!
love is another name to give... love is about giving and as long as you guys give the love the other deserves you guys will be a happy couple!
it will be tough since he is not around you but he will always be in your heart! stay true to your heart!!
good luck!
2006-07-21 04:32:14 · answer #9 · answered by Pari 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your asking a question we cant answer. Are you commited to working hard on this relationship? Are you willing to stay serious and be apart? You have to ask yourselves this question.
If you were meant to be, you will make it and make a beautiful bride!! Good luck
2006-07-21 04:28:21 · answer #10 · answered by ♠♣♥Rogue♣♥♠ 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Thats a long engagement.. Good Luck with that but if the love is that strong then it will last..
2006-07-21 04:26:15 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋