He is largely supported by the family. But also has a small business that is largely run by his father. The father may not be there forver. On the medical front he takes medicine and is normal otherwise.
He is partially dependent for finances.
he is very complaint to medicine. Takes it regulraly.
another point... This is India.... where marraiges have to be arranged... one has to find a bride...but at the same time he is keen on this as he feels he needs a companion and deserves to get married like others!!!
2006-07-21 04:17:42 · 14 answers · asked by Monsh 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
please give serious answers...making fun of the situation will only demean your own standards
2006-07-21 04:22:40 · update #1
I don't believe it is a good idea.. a wife shouldn't have to deal with a life of that kind.. if a man can not financially take care of his self then he shouldn't be taking on a wife and children as well.. I can understand his loneliness though but in the end it is still not right
2006-07-21 04:25:06 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't believe anyone can answer this question without being a psychiatrist. The person in question must be evaluated to determine how severe the illness is and whether the person has developed or is capable of developing significant coping mechanisms. However, one thing you must remember is that people with schizophrenia experience hallucinations, delusions and altered perceptions of reality. If the medication does not work or the person affected chooses to miss a few doses, he is liable to have a psychotic episode and the person he marries must have the emotional, financial, and intellectual capabiliites to handle these types of situations. Additionally, "Even when treatment is effective, persisting consequences of the illness – lost opportunities, stigma, residual symptoms, and medication side effects – may be very troubling." I took this quote directly from schizophrenia.com. The question here may not necessarily be "should this person get married" but "who should this person marry". This is a very difficult and troubling disease to be involved with. I would recommend the person with the illness and any person willing to marry him research the disease very carefully and submit themselves to extensive counseling prior to marriage. There are many websites and support groups that can give you sufficient information. Some couples have been able to have successful marriages and some have not. Good luck.
2006-07-21 06:12:51 · answer #2 · answered by lyricsop 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well as long as he is on medicine I see no problems , but I also think in a case like this there should be a person in the family well trusted to be able to sign documents,and be able to do anything legal if he should fail takeing medicine or have a breakdown of some kind.
I know this is ya'lls belief ,but I disagree with the
marraiges have to be arranged. I feel sorry for who ever has to be forced into marraige and not for love .Just because some man needs a companion, I think it is unfair to the woman , and think if a man can not find his own wife for love then he should not be married at all.
2006-07-21 04:25:53 · answer #3 · answered by its_ok_im_here69 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
schizophrenia is not MPD (multiple personality disorder)
WIthout knowing what type he is....not an easy answer.
Would hope that the partner that he would marry would read up on the disease itself and know that life with schizophrenia is not all bad if the right medicine is being taken, but there are always gonna be changes in the disease and pshychotic behavior to follow can be exhausting and damaging. This is no reason he could not lead a normal life like everyone else.
2006-07-21 04:35:39 · answer #4 · answered by wondering about this 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he takes his drugs there could be no reason to no longer - for sure he has a solid help gadget - and via the time his mothers and fathers are no longer to any extent further around technology could have got here upon a treatment for it. if he's loving and considerate it is the main significant question - additionally how sever is his schizophrenia? what number circumstances has he had relapse? Has he ever been non compliant along with his meds?
2016-10-08 04:03:30 · answer #5 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have a family member with schizophrenia who has been happily married for almost 14 yrs. They as a couple decided not to have children of their own due to fear of passing along schizophrenia but are begining to think about adoption.
He works full time and does well. Good luck.
2006-07-21 04:32:42 · answer #6 · answered by Bay Girl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I certainly wouldn't marry him, knowing that. I'm sure he's a nice person but I wouldn't get involved knowing he has a serious mental problem. Regardless of the fact he's on drugs, it's something you'd always have to deal with and in my opinion, it'd be a deal breaker.
2006-07-21 04:25:19 · answer #7 · answered by Rachel 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
bringing new meaning to "there was three of us in that marriage", eh? Seriously though, it'd probably be a good idea. no point getting held back from life be a mental disorder. it sounds quite under control. it'd be the finances i'd be mostly worried about.
2006-07-21 04:22:58 · answer #8 · answered by the man 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well in todays world all the profits of the old testament would be concidered to be schizophrenic and they were married so I guess that it is cool.
eho knows he might have the answer to all the worlds problems.
2006-07-21 04:22:01 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think you should stay with him. if you truly love him stand by him. if you only want him for his mula. leave him alone. he does deserve to live a normal life like everyone.
just make sure he takes his med's. and don't get him angry cuz you never know. they could hurt you without knowing, or intentionally. good luck
2006-07-21 04:27:50 · answer #10 · answered by GrownNSexy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋