Ok...the boobs are little...."B's". The husband says he's not a "boob man" yet he makes comments about boobs on t.v., in magazines, and about people we just see walking by. And, its about the chicks with the bigger boobs...or at least bigger than mine. What's the deal? Is he a boob guy and just trying not to hurt my feelings?
2006-07-21 04:15:36 · 31 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
there is some men that does not like big boobs, and some likes not so big boobs....it does depend on the person.i do not have real big boobs and i have never had any complaints anyway...a man does like to look at them obviously.. but that does not he wants his woman to have them.. a woman that has big boobs is not easy to overlook anyway.. some flaunt them by what they wear which i do not think makes them very attractive people.. if they just want to show off what they have anyway..but a man will look but does not mean he wants you to have them.. if he said he is happy with you i would not worry about it at all.. i think it is what is inside you that a man falls in love with.. your body is for pleasure and you get more pleasure with someone who is a great friend of someone you love..
2006-07-21 04:26:29 · answer #1 · answered by sanangel 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I think boobs are programed into the male psych to be noticed, that does not make every male on the planet a "BOOB MAN". Most of my male friends say that small breast are fine. and I agree! A handful is just perfect. Trust me, if your man was a BOOB guy, he would already be pestering you for a BOOB JOB! I think you should let it go,,, or maybe start talking about other guys asses when he starts talking about other woman's boobs! that will probably put a stop to that,, or you will have some great sex!
2006-07-21 05:42:47 · answer #2 · answered by amara 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hey Girl... take it from a boob guy. did you know the difference between a boob guy and a leg guy? the boob guy actually exists. I can appreciate a nice set of legs but they are only something to kiss on while you are traveling... you should also know that a true boob man enjoys all boobs small, big etc. but then again that is not what you are really saying is it... I think what you are really saying is, "how can I get my guy to stop noticing other girls ****?" correct me if I am wrong but I think life would be so much easier if a man did not have to figure out what she really means?????
2006-07-21 04:24:46 · answer #3 · answered by 57chevy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
To me, just talking about other women's boobs when he knows you are sensitive about it shows a lack of respect for you. It's very possible that he tells you that he is not a boob man, but he really is and is just not wanting to hurt your feelings. All men notice women with big boobs, especially if that woman is wearing something that shows them off. It's just a male thing. Doesn't mean that we want out women to have bigger boobs, though. If he loves you, he loves you the way you are. It does bother me that he talks about bigger boobs in front of you when he knows it bothers you, though
2006-07-21 04:19:18 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
What is it about yourself that you don't like?
What your husband is going is certainly disrespectful to you and your wedding vows, and it is okay to let him know how hurtful his comments are. If he truly loves you then the size of your breasts should not be an issue, yet his "obsession" is troubling and could certainly fuel any insecurities you may have in that regard.
I raise the question of insecurities because of the facts you presented about your breast size and because you continue to tolerate your husbands disrespectful, hurtful, and unnecessary comments.
So I ask again, what is it about yourself that you don't like?
If you are truly bothered by your beast size, then I suggest you seek counsel from a trusted friend, pastor, or therapist. It would also be helpful for you to seek assistance with self esteem building. Don't change the body you were born with to please someone who does not seem to appreciate what God gave you. You are better than that.
2006-07-21 04:27:47 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds it, i am attracted more to smaller boobs and i don't go around making comments about bigger boobs....i think i reached my quota for saying the word boob in one day
2006-07-21 04:18:03 · answer #6 · answered by Maestro 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
men are attracted to all kinds of boobs... some days you want big ones, other days you want small ones... it's very normal... my wife has b's, and that's fine with me -- in fact, i wouldn't want them to get any bigger... it's very normal for any guy to be fascinated with boobs of any sort, not just the big ones... i'm not sure what the obsession is myself, but like i said, what i prefer changes often , but in the end i love my wife's boobs the most
2006-07-21 04:25:33 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
He might just prefer bigger boobs,but the point is he has yours.He likes something about them you're still together.Hope everything works out.
2006-07-21 04:20:32 · answer #8 · answered by NIKKI 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My ex boyfriend once said. Boobs are so special, seeing different onces are like seeing boobs for the first time. Their pigs and cant get enough of the boobies.
2006-07-21 04:19:32 · answer #9 · answered by ♠♣♥Rogue♣♥♠ 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's okay to have breasts those size, I think it's perfectly fine to me though I'm a bit young to even say it myself. He's a boob guy, what else? Why would he start checking out girls in public and in magazines and actually castigate about their size? It's fine for a girl to have B cups, they were born like it and I'm pretty damn sure that girls like to be real and not fake.
2006-07-21 04:19:37 · answer #10 · answered by krazych1nky 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋