i broken up with boyfriend on the 18 june. He was out with his brother one night and he got real drunk and he told his brother about us. The thing is we were seeing each other behide his family backs i know it wrong but his family hate me so much. I don't know why he happy being with me. but can not stand him seeing him happy with me he phone to tell its off because his brother told him he going to say something to everyone im relley upset he told keep text him as a friend but when i do he nevers texts back he said he would he told me give it 6 months and he be back with me should i wait for him or just get on with my life?
2006-07-21 03:42:11 · 22 answers · asked by jenny cooper 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
leave him cuz 4 all u know he cud hav somethin on the side and he's wid some1 else for sex and he will use u as his rebound if it doesnt work out wid whoever he mite b wid so i say get on wid ur life and find some1 better...who doesnt care wat their family think and will luv u and b wid u widout givin a dam.n about wat family says r thinks
2006-07-21 03:53:20 · answer #1 · answered by Matthew 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If it was meant to be he would have found a way around his family. Love conquers all.
Go and get a life, if in 6 months he comes crawling back take it from there but don't put you're life on hold just for the "maybe".
Have you ever thought he's using the family as an excuse and he might have another girlfriend that they know about, so he doesn't want to ruin that relationship. Sorry to be harsh but it happens.
2006-07-28 10:28:05 · answer #2 · answered by Lilac Lady 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hunny get in with your life if he can put you through that then there is no chance of it ever happen again, he he truely loves you then he wouldn't care about what his family says take it from me, been there done that got the pain to prove it. i was with my ex for four years and he never not once stuck up for me his family hated me just because i was a different race from him, see he was chinese and im not so they hated me. leave hunny get a new man like i did he treats me with respect and his family loves me and he always sticks up for me no matter what. forget him you have life don't waste 6 months waiting for him that just means hes got a hold on you and for christ sakes don't ever let a man have a hold on you like that cause your only going to be lied to and broken hearted. chose life. hope i have help. take care hope you find what you want xx
2006-07-21 10:51:32 · answer #3 · answered by luckylu2k3 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get on with ur life .. he not worth it .. if he loved you he would of told his family and took the flak ... anyways its him u were goin out with not his bloody family... if they dont like u thats their problem unless u done sommat really awful to them and then maybe u can understand why .. but if not sod the lot of them find someone who not scared of his family and enjoy ur life .x
2006-07-29 13:58:45 · answer #4 · answered by lizzie d 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
my X's family hated me they never use to like me... until they really got to know me... but a few tips... its not going to be easy... i had to go threw lot of hard times... like what is he doing here, stop calling, don't come here anymore, but guess what i ended up putting up with it and she became my first love and some day it will work out again... so the reason period is dumb for breaking up he wants his family knowing about u and him... in life nothing can hide forever... so make up and work on it... in life anything to easy is not worth keeping
2006-07-27 12:52:35 · answer #5 · answered by bigJ 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it shudnt have made a difference if it woz behind the families back if he really cared for you he wud have let his brother say something. just move on with your life it will be hard but you will get there
2006-07-21 10:50:58 · answer #6 · answered by Party_gyal 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
what are you waiting for to get hurt again and again, its not going to happen he will run home ever time the going gets tough so why wait for him to come back and mess up your life. move on it might hurt but not as much if uou think you can change the obvious wimp.
2006-07-27 09:09:16 · answer #7 · answered by peanuts 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
is your ex a man or a mouse, your ex is ruled by his family and this will not make for a healthy relationship.
forget him and move on with your life, you be in control and meet yourself someone who will want to introduce you to his family and feel proud to say he is going out with you.
family's should keep there noses out and allow there children to get on with there lives and not rule them
2006-07-28 05:42:57 · answer #8 · answered by Carlette D 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
OMG just get on with your life, hard i know if you really care for someone but think about how he is treating you. if your mate just said what you said, what would your advise be! there is definitely someone out there who you will care about more and who will care about you and who will treat you the way you deserve to be treated. respect yourself and tell the ex to p*** off!
2006-07-21 13:45:28 · answer #9 · answered by rubytuesday. 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
get on with ur life girl. there are plenty of lads out there who would jump at the chance to be with you and would not hide you from their families. you need some one who is proud of you and respects you, clearly this lad doesnt.
2006-07-27 13:31:55 · answer #10 · answered by logsy_babe 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
oh gal im feelin for you must b pretty hard, but you know if he really really really cared about you so much he wudnt giv a damn wat every1 was talkin about, even they hated you he shud of stood by you and all.and if he dosnt wana txt u bak and is tellin you to wait for him then i suggest you go look elswere for sum 1 better and get on with your life. if you wernt worth that much to him to be togetha then he definately aint worth w8n 4.
2006-07-21 10:53:24 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋