I am going crazy over my boyfriend and the way things are. We recently moved out of our apartment and I am back home. I need to forget about him!!How can I actually not call him or answer his calls??I need advice on how to be strong because I love him but I know I can do better.
2006-07-21 03:29:58 · 9 answers · asked by favteacher 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
I meant that I deserve better, I'm not actually looking for anyone else
2006-07-21 03:42:52 · update #1
My dear I know what you are going through. Everybody does, as all of us have been quite in the same situations. You should bear in mind just one thing: If you really have very strong reasons to break up with him, then you should tell yourself a big NO!
Every time you think about him, try start doing smth, move and keep yourself busy. Go put with friends. In these cases friends are the best remedy.
About his phone call, well if you ca change your phone number, if you can't well...answer the phone and explain to him clearly that it's over and that he should not bother you anymore.
Make up your mind! I know it's difficult, but you'll get over this. Life goes on.
Avoid seeing him, talking about him, talking to him. If you want to forget him, then you have to find smth else that would bring joy to your life.
Go out with friends, get yourself involved in activities and move on. You'll find a better man, be sure about that.
Wish you the best of luck!
2006-07-21 04:07:41 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Like you said yourself, your know you can do better. Keep reminding yourself that you deserve better every time you hear the phone ring { and if possible block his number from your phone} Every time you feel tempted to call him remind yourself that you had been there and done that and it will only be the same. If you have someone else to call at the time you feel the need to call him, call them instead. You,ll make yourself stronger each time. Best wishes for you, I know how hard is to break the bond , but you can.
2006-07-21 10:39:47 · answer #2 · answered by auntkarendjjb 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Turn off your phone, and keep yourself busy. The more you do, the more you will forget about him. Hang out with your friends. Do something fun. Also ceremonial burning of his stuff might help. That is always soothing ;)
2006-07-21 10:32:47 · answer #3 · answered by heatherdrake2005 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What your going thru definately takes time to heal...Its sooo hard to do,Just pray as much as you can....Cry only in the shower! Stay away from love songs, and just try to stay busy...You may or may not gain a few pounds while in this transition, i did....What ever you do try to stay away from the drugs & alcohol...thats the easiest gateway(I know) Try not to mention his name much, it will get better in due time....Good luck!
2006-07-21 15:12:27 · answer #4 · answered by Simple1 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
delete his number from you're cell phone.and when he calls you don't answer the phone.have you're mom or dad answer the phone.and have them tell him that you busy and can't come the phone.and then give all of his stuff back to him that he ever gave you.good luck
2006-07-21 10:42:02 · answer #5 · answered by Angel sent from heaven 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
keep yourself busy
use caller id to screen his calls..
it will drive you crazy at first but if you need to move on you have to be strong.
good luck.
2006-07-21 10:34:25 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
try yahoo personals or ask a friend if they know anyone they can hook u up with. try meeting new guys and maybe youll find one that can take his place.
2006-07-21 10:34:19 · answer #7 · answered by Riley M 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
get help talk to a family member
2006-07-21 10:38:16 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you dont really love him if you are looking for someone better.
2006-07-21 10:34:33 · answer #9 · answered by angelo26 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋