I am currently introvert. Tal less, Hesitate to talk to people in public gatherings, "What the other minds If I do this" attitude. I want to become an extrovert. I am 35. Can any one suggest me how to and what to do? Any tips/Books/Portals??
2006-07-21 03:25:44 · 9 answers · asked by K S 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
It is your nature, you cannot go against your nature but change your nature, It is not necessary to talk more everywhere but be open minded and join in all gathering where and when necesary, take all matter lightly .Don't mix sentiment with this. I am also soft spoken, but I feel my popularity and enjoy all things with my nature-otherwise we have to live ubhapy.
2006-07-21 03:33:48 · answer #1 · answered by Rim 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you can't become extrovertive, you should be proud of the fact that you're introvertive, only 30% of people are so i believe it's a good thing and i'm proud to be introvertive, but that doesn't mean you can't have confidence, you just have to develop some extrovertive behaviors so that you can relate better to people in group type settings, but you can never become an evtrovert, even when you do find out how to get along better in groups you will find that you're tired after being around a bunch of people for too long, and you'll want to go isolate, just accept it the only reason people think that there's something wrong with introversion is because most people aren't that way and don't understand and it's not in an introvert's nature to stand up among all of those extroverts and explain ourselves, but we don't have to all you have to do is learn how to live with and be happy with who you are, that's your only real problem, after 35 years you haven't accepted that fact that you're introvertive, you spend too much time trying to fix a problem that isn't a problem, that can't be fixed anyway, rather than learning to live with it and use it to your advantage
2006-07-21 03:40:10 · answer #2 · answered by Jeff 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can't change from Introvert to extrovert, that's your personality makeup. That's like asking a leopard to change it's spots. Your personality is your personality.
But, I don't think you're an introvert, it sounds like your shy. Shyness is not a function of introversion, it's a function of confidence. A true introvert is one that gets exhausted from too much contact and finds rest and recharging in being alone. An extrovert finds their charge in being around people.
I was shy for years and thought I was an Introvert. Come to find out I'm an extrovert, just shy (which is usually from a low self-esteem problem).
Take the Myers Briggs Test (do a web search) to find out if you are truly an introvert. If you find out you're really an extrovert, then your just shy. Next find out why you're shy (probably a self-esteem issue) and then take steps to correct the causes of your shyness.
2006-07-21 03:32:34 · answer #3 · answered by 4XTrader 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No one can help you if you can't help your self. Do not hesitate be comfortable with every one around. be natural. The best thing I can tell you is- be the same in front of everyone as you are in alone. See Extrovert doesn't means go on talking. It means comfortable with talking and with everyone. Believe yourself. No need to refer the books. Refer your self- "what makes you feel uncomfortable?" And try to overcome out of this reason.
2006-07-21 03:34:06 · answer #4 · answered by crazychori 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's all but mind-setting and goal-setting. You got all the power to become an extrovert. If someone asks you out or join a party, dont hesitate to say yes. Its a good start.
2006-07-21 03:31:12 · answer #5 · answered by cerebellum 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i've got continuously been a sprint bit an introvert, yet have pop out of my shell slightly. i think of having jobs which in contact chatting with strangers frequently taking place helped. basically forcing your self to get obtainable and seek advice from human beings you do no longer understand (for sure do no longer in straightforward terms walk as much as human beings on the line and initiate chatting with them). connect instructions exterior of school/artwork. basically get obtainable and stay life. basically remember. we are in straightforward terms right here as quickly as. So take great thing approximately it. And in case you think of you're gonna make a fool of your self - no huge deal, all people does now and back, and its frequently forgotten or gotten over. in the grand scheme of issues, its no longer a brilliant deal.
2016-10-08 04:01:55 · answer #6 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hangout with people that have the same interests as you do. Do it in small steps. Listen and watch. Then see what works for you. Learn from your mistakes and remember the things that work for you. Good Luck
2006-07-21 03:31:09 · answer #7 · answered by rastus7742 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
many books and websites on improving your confidence so yahoo on the subject and go out with people who you can relate to and can talk about a subject with confidence
2006-07-21 03:30:22 · answer #8 · answered by pete 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
alcohol works
2006-07-21 03:28:59 · answer #9 · answered by jada_24 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋