We are trying to get pregnant for the past 2 years, but no luck. We both are fine, there is no fertility problem. For the past 4 months i am charting my temp every morning. This month the temp is constant for the past 4 days. (It has not dropped down). Today is my 32nd day, i should have got my period by now, but no period. Could it mean I am pregnant? I am scared to take a pregnacy test, In the past when I tested it was negative. I dont want to be depressed again. Please pray to God that i am pregnant. I dont know what to do . It is the same thing every month we try and try but no luck. After reading some of the stories i am really happy for all the women who were trying and then got pregnant.
It is difficult for to pass one day, thoughts keep on going through my mind.
2006-07-21
03:00:49
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➔ Trying to Conceive
Look for other signs to crop up if you dont want to take a test. Check your nipples, if they are colored a little differently, or the texture is slightly different, that is a good sign you are pregnant. If they are more sensitive than normal, that is another. Are you more sensitive vaginally? Has your appetite changed at all, for better or worse? Have you been moody, like PMS?
If you arent seeing any of this, or other signs, then wait a week to see if your cycle comes. It might be the stress you put on yourself about getting pregnant that is making your cycle late. If your cycle DOES come, I suggest stop trying for two or three months. Keep having sex, but try and take the pressure off getting pregnant. A lot of times the pressure we put on ourselves to get pregnant actually keeps it from happening for us. A month or two break can do you and your body alot of good.
Good Luck!!
2006-07-21 03:08:26
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answered by Anonymous
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I can fully understand what you are going through (Personal experience!!) anyway, there maybe a good chance you are pregnant but you said its the same thing every month does that mean this same pattern happend last month ie temp and getting to day 32? if so thats your cycle.......... if not get that test out sooner rather than later then yes you will be dissapointedif its negative BUT you can then get on with what you need ie practicing making babies, best advice forget about 'trying' just get on with life and when the time is right it will happen. All the stress and strin will be having an effect of both you and the quality of the sperm your partner is producing - take the pressure of and don't think about it and believe me it will happen ( i now have 3 boys!!)
2006-07-21 10:09:11
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answered by di35mo 1
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Hold your breath and pee on that stick honey, I hope it Say's yes. I had to have someone else tell me that i was pregnant before I would take a home test and I still didn't believe it. I was scared to think of myself having A baby because I tried and tried and Nothing and I cried and cried. It finally happened when I stopped trying and worrying about it so much. I hope everything works out for you good luck and all my love I will be praying for you
2006-07-21 10:11:01
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answered by mommy2faithat19#3 4
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how late is your period? I would say that you might be but being stress can delay your period a week or two...I waited untill i was a week late and then a week after that also just to make sure....just go ahead and take the test..it will happen when you stop trying
2006-07-21 10:32:01
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answered by sjeboyce 5
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Save yourself the stress and just take the test. You're going to slowly kill yourself with the pressure you're putting on with this whole pregnancy thing. You can visit your doctor about it, so he can help you with your natural family planning. It is better to just take the test, and if its a negative, tomorrow is still another day.
2006-07-21 10:09:04
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answered by Mujareh 4
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When you get pregnant your bbt stays up so there might be a chance for you to be pregnant, I will say a prayer for you, however have you tried everything? like I know you have to be really really good to do your temp because it can sometimes be tricky, so have you tried using Preseed lubricant? go to this website and read about it www.preseed.com. Good luck!
2006-07-21 10:30:56
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answered by Lilly 5
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You are never going to know (well you will if you are) if you don't take a pregnancy test. Would you rather know or just sit there and agonize and stress over the fact that you don't know? (If you are, stress really isn't the best thing for you.)
2006-07-21 10:03:07
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answered by Blunt Honesty 7
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You said that youve been trying to become pregnant for two years. Then you said: "We both are fine, there is no fertility problem. "
Thats not possible.
See another doctor.
2006-07-21 10:05:40
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answered by Alexander Shannon 5
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Yes youy are pregnent
2006-07-21 10:34:23
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answered by Kaila 1
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You wanna get pregnant....go on welfare...never fails!
2006-07-21 10:03:52
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answered by Anonymous
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