How do I cope and keep myself happy and out of depression?
2006-07-21 02:39:42 · 15 answers · asked by foxzie006 3 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Pregnancy
As hard as it may be, you CANNOT STRESS about it, it may cause you to go into early labor. Know that he will be getting what is coming to him, and this is the worst time he could have done it to you, and your baby. You are going to have someone else to think about that comes first even before you do. Your Baby he will come first for now on, it is your baby you have to think about now, not the baby's father. Kick him to the curb and collect child support. If he cheated on you once he will do it again, how could you have a strong relationship knowing what he did to you while you were pregnant with his baby. Milk him for every penny.
2006-07-21 02:46:28 · answer #1 · answered by anaw81 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Men who cheat on there girlfriend/wife are stupid and can't control then selves, Men are apposed to think your sexy at this stage in your pregnancy. Some men just don't grasp the concept. I am so sorry he did that to you, you are an amazing women for caring this child. Men are dogs sweethart. If you are still together just think of this as a rock in the rocky road of relationships. If your not with him than find you A better man that loves you and your child too much to be A dog and cheat, But make sure the baby's father play's A big role in your childs life because he/she only has one Dad. My mom always told me it takes A man to be A father. Good luck and congrats on your new baby, don't let him bring you down he isn't worth it. God Bless you and your child
2006-07-21 02:50:59 · answer #2 · answered by mommy2faithat19#3 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Have the baby first of all, don't worry about the father issue until the baby is old enough to understand. Then when the baby is old enough, find the father and sit him down with child and explain what happened and why you two split. As far as happiness and depression goes, you have a beautiful baby on the way, and if it gets way out of hand take an anti-depression.
2006-07-21 02:48:40 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to stay away from him for a while because you will remember it when you see him. You are about to have a wonderful bundle of joy arriving in 2 months that will change your life for the better and any aggravation will disrupt that. Hang out with people with good spirits and I'll bet he will be the last thing on your mind (then after if he doesn't realizes that he was being an idiot then leave him)
2006-07-21 02:48:39 · answer #4 · answered by unebellefille10 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, get rid of the man your with. Then, you won't always be wondering what he's doing everytime he leaves to go to "work", saving you years of anguish and worry.
To keep you happy- your baby!
Also, the knowledge that you're no longer with some rotten scum who is so afraid of commiting to you that he has to go off with other women whilst your carryng his baby.
You'll be better off without him.
Go to some antenatal groups, make lots of new friends and you'll soon forget about him. In a couple of months, when all you seem to be doing is changing nappies and feeding your little one, you'll not have much time to think about him anyway...
Good luck for the future, honey, you'll be fine and an amazing mom too!
2006-07-21 02:48:08 · answer #5 · answered by ♥Pamela♥ 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just think about the baby! The same thing happened to my cousin... She was very depressed but she kept her head up and had her baby on her mind. Now she has a healthy boy.. its very hard for her b/c she's in school and working.. but dont let that jerk ruin your life. Take his a** for child support because it takes two to have a baby and that baby is his responcibility too.
2006-07-21 03:47:46 · answer #6 · answered by hjentsch87 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-11-25 00:06:21 · answer #7 · answered by pisa 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I was 5 months pregnant and found out he cheated on me with my 1st baby.You can't get depressed cause the baby feels it.I know that it is hard not to.But just know if you take him back he will do it again.Once a cheater always a cheater.
2006-07-21 03:22:14 · answer #8 · answered by Ms.Danielle 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sorry for your dilemma. As the ole' saying goes, "once a cheat, ALWAYS a cheat". You will be best served if you dump his nasty a s s. He is a loser and does not deserve the likes of someone like you. Honestly, dump him now before the baby is born.
mb
2006-07-21 02:48:21 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well first *** the guy off your bub needs him but u don't need trash like that, just think postiative hey. Your have a beautilful little baby in only 2months time if you don't work things out with the dad than you'll find someone who deserves you that will love and respect you and never disrespect you like he has.
2006-07-21 02:44:13 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋