My sister broke up with her bf 3 months ago. Her bf never tried to ask for a second chance.Last night the guy sent a message to me that he misses and still love my sis. He's building a house now and it will be done soon for my sister. He is still positive that my sis will take him back. I talked to my sis and she said she got no plans of taking him back. I pity the guy so much.What would be the best advice to give to that guy?
2006-07-21 02:39:17 · 11 answers · asked by cerebellum 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
ask the guy to make his move. do everything. serenade her. send her thousands of roses. cook her breakfast. buy her favorite foods. if he really loves her, and I think he has the money. do the sweetest thing to her. if he thinks it is worth it. tell him that you will help him to do his plans. =D
share to him what your sister loves eating, reading, buying, wearing.. =D you can do it.. =D
2006-07-21 02:56:11 · answer #1 · answered by deadmeat 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Best honest with him, tell him your sis is not interested in getting back together with him. It is his fault for building a house without consulting your sister as to what she wanted to do and if she even wanted him to build a house if they got back together.
Classic case of putting the horse before the cart. Just be honest. Honestly is always the best policy.
2006-07-21 02:45:40 · answer #2 · answered by 4XTrader 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you should tell the guy to stop using you as a middle person and talk to your sister himself. If he does all this without even talking to her that is not very smart and so I don't feel sorry for him. He has to be a real man and communicate and not try to win her heart back by manipulation. No relationship will last or be strong if it is based on guilt and manipulation.
2006-07-21 02:46:45 · answer #3 · answered by Joy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
who broke it up ? ur sister, or he himself ? if ur sister has done it, then just tell that boy, there is no use, he should not hope for the best but prepare for the worst.
But if he had done it, then first have a talk to ur sister with serious maturity, and tell her it is very easy to break, but who is she getting in her way right now, who is building up concrete dreams for her ?
2006-07-21 02:48:19 · answer #4 · answered by rani 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him to discuss it with your sister. He's obviously a cowardly little wimp if he can't talk to her. Maybe that's why she broke up with him.
A woman wants a man to act like a man!
2006-07-21 02:48:37 · answer #5 · answered by Cookie 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Let him be or take you sisters place, he is in a bad way.
2006-07-21 03:59:12 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell him you are uncomfortable being in the middle and that you think he's great but you don't want to be in the middle of it. Wish him luck and stay out of it!! Good luck!!
2006-07-21 03:28:58 · answer #7 · answered by beautifully broken 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell him to not get his hopes up. that your sister doesnt really talk bout him and that she has moved on. even suggest that she may be seeing someone. he has to get the impression that its over
2006-07-21 02:43:48 · answer #8 · answered by marcvialli 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if the guy is still a friend to you, you should tell him the truth and not let him keep his hopes up.
2006-07-21 02:44:08 · answer #9 · answered by baby 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell him dyboy34 would like to move in the house.
2006-07-21 02:50:36 · answer #10 · answered by dyboy34 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋