I'm being so horrible to my boyfriend, he's so forgiving - I came off my period about two days ago...but he talked to his sister this morning so didn't pick up the phone when I was calling - I went mad, I was so upset! Those who read my question about his sister will know why (we don't get on) But I get so upset when he talks to her or even mentions her...he's going to talk things through with her but I can't carry on behaving like this. It's horrible! And he's being so lovely! I created two arguments by 11:30am this morning already...then I apologised yet again. What can I do to stop it!? I'm exhausted too (not excusing it but could be a reason??)
2006-07-21 02:24:00 · 7 answers · asked by Bridezilla 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
maybe deep down on a subconcious level yuo are testing his patience. you say he is so lovely and forgiving and maybe that annoys you. you try to get an angry response out of him, and your fustrated you cant. sorry if this has offended you, its only a theory.
2006-07-21 02:30:09 · answer #1 · answered by marcvialli 5 · 3⤊ 1⤋
You need to calm down and chill out, maybe have some ME time just to be by yourself, often when you are stressed out or exhausted as you sed you are you may say things that you dont mean or dont even know you have said. You could also try talking to your boyfriend he may be able to help you through it this could be a good thing and make you a stronger couple Good Luck hope all goes well!!!!
2006-07-21 09:31:03 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe you need some space and time apart just to re-evaluate the situation and get some breathing space..I am the same as you to be honest when it comes to my period,it`s not your fault but just your hormones or rather pmt...You need to chill out,why dont you like his sister maybe you need to spend time with her and discuss whats going on between the two of you...Good luck.
2006-07-21 09:37:40 · answer #3 · answered by sarah y 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you're horrible because you are getting away with it and know you can. he needs to toughen up and stand up to you a bit. the best way to stop it is to realise that everytime you do it you push him a little further away until one day he'll just up and leave you and you'll regret your behaviour for ages......... I've done it, been cocky thought I'd always get away with it and lost out big time.
2006-07-21 09:53:21 · answer #4 · answered by crownose 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be different.
You know you're mad, you know you're wrong, and you know you're at fault.
Better straighten up your act before he finds someone else to preform the encore!
2006-07-21 09:33:26 · answer #5 · answered by The R 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
time to dump him, your not happy, or try a temp break
good luck
2006-07-21 11:00:44 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you better change your attitude and be nice to him since he is such a lovely person.
2006-07-21 10:59:01 · answer #7 · answered by babygirl 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋