I know that it's because of emotions. I already got that figured out but what I don't get is why she lets those emotions out through crying? It's not that it scares me, shes not upset, I can tell, because she smiles when she does it. She was never raped or molested. It's just that when were done making love she cries and tells me how much she loves me. I'm just confused thats all.
2006-07-21 02:17:28 · 34 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
For alot of women sex can be emotionally overwelming. After a girl finishes making love she may feel so overcome with joy that the only way for it to come out is to cry. It's good that it doesn't scare you, that shows your just as comfortable sharing yourself physically as she is. Sex can make a woman feel very vulnerable. Take this as an opportunity to strengthen your bond with her; kiss her on the cheek, lie next to her and cuddle. Many women love to be held after lovemaking, so just wrap your arms around her, let her cry, tell her you love her and just fall asleep in each others arms. Trust me that will be the best thing you can do because she obviously trust you and feels safe with you.
Best of luck
2006-07-21 02:47:37 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 34⤊ 1⤋
Your girlfriend loves you and you can understnad that the way she expresses her feelings. Even though you just finished making love, your girlfriend is expressing her emotions through tears. Hopefully, she has not bottled up all her anger and fears and is crying about it. Sometimes the only thing you can do to problems that you havent solved is cry. When someone cries, it is said that they are very hurt, and all their emotions are bottled up . Talk to your girlfriend and make sure that she doesnt have any problems , or otherwise hug her and hold her. Women are very sensual humans, and we love for someone to take care of us. So take care of her!
2006-07-21 02:24:49 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have a very good relationship,the tears are an emotional thing, they show fullfillment of the heart. Some people experience this and some don't. Even some men cry after making love.
2006-07-21 03:06:43 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes it is emosions and at that moment you thank God that you did the most special thing with someone you REALLY love!!!
It is because you love the other person so much and it all just well up inside and you are so happy with this person that it all gets too much, and you break down and cry!!! (for example at wedding she cries bcause she is so happy)
Enjoy your weekend!!!
2006-07-21 02:24:03 · answer #4 · answered by kelly 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like shes really in love with you. Women are very emotional thats not big news.
2006-07-21 02:23:05 · answer #5 · answered by arreis 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
some girls are very emotional when it comes to making love.Right after sex is when she feels the closest you and is the most vulnerable time to let her feelings out.Dont worry shes just emotional.Be glad she lets u know that says alot about you to.Its probaly hard for her to believe that someone could love someone so much
2006-07-21 02:28:40 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Some people feel so much joy that they have to either laugh or cry. You really don't want het to laugh after sex, do you?
Maybe just hold her for a few minutes afterwards, just to let her know you love her as much as she loves you.
2006-07-21 02:22:26 · answer #7 · answered by T Time 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't associate tears with sadness!! great joy and love can produce the same effect!! when i start laughing and can't stop it always turns in to crying for me its very embarassing but the harder i laugh the harder i cry.......it's just a side effect!! kiss away her tears, giver her a tickle and a cuddle and all is well.
2006-07-21 02:23:46 · answer #8 · answered by SirenSings 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe u don't show ur love & feelings and after sex she just thinks that's the most u can give her.. she really loves u.. try to be more emotional and hold her in that moment.. tell & show her how much u love her
2006-07-21 02:38:35 · answer #9 · answered by Lemi 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wow she is an emotional woman, for a lot of women sex is an emotional event for her more so that most. I wouldn't worry about it but if you ever break up, I don't envy you that.
2006-07-21 02:26:42 · answer #10 · answered by Jim C 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Is she is smiling, don't worry. Some people have emotional overloads, where emotion just spills out when they have a strong emotional surge.
2006-07-21 02:23:06 · answer #11 · answered by flowerandkevin 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋