Lately i've noticed how guys only worry about scoring the hot girl. And it doesnt matter what she says no matter how stupid she sounds, it doesnt matter, cause shes hot. Some girls are lsuperficila like that too. They only hang out with conceited girls who act and look just like that. Cant we give everyone a chance? Do looks really take you a long way?
2006-07-21 02:07:58 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Society & Culture ➔ Other - Society & Culture
superficial* sorry spelled that wrong
2006-07-21 02:11:12 · update #1
Mely, guys are going after "hot" girls just to have fun.. I know from my own experience... I, and my friends, used to be like that.. They take some time to realize what's really important other than looks... For example, i would never marry a girl who's "hot" cos' i don wanna screw my marriage life up... In my experience, most of the guys think this way.. I mean, those girls who are only concerned about their looks but nothing else..I won't say every "hot" girl is dumb or slutty, some are smart and i'm pretty damn sure there's a greater number of Bugatti Veyrons on road than "hot" smart girls... I like beautiful, charm girls but not those "hot" ones anymore... They are good for the time being just to chew and throw away... They also know that and its hightime they realize they're too late to find their Mr.Perfect when those guys find girls who are smart, cultured and civilised and who are set to higher standards of behaviour... A friend of mine has a tendency to go after every "hot" girl and most of the times, he's successful.. He's had sex with a bunch of girls but you know what he says? He says when he gets married, the girl (who ever its gonna be) is excused if she's had one or maximun two boyfriends before and he'd prefer a virgin (pretty funny).. Maybe he's too weird but that's how guys think when they mean business... I just don't wanna marry a "barbie doll" even though she says " you can touch, you can play, if you say i'm always yours" and gives all the fun in the world. I'd prefer a girl who's smart enough to cheer me up when the going gets tough, not someone who just leaves you looking for another "stoner" to hump with... Believe me, since i don't know u, i can tell you the truth.. Just don't try to be like other girls thinking all the guys like it... Just be who you are and if he likes you for that, that's the one for you.. True, there are some guys who think the most important thing is to marry a "hot" girl and sooner or later they realize that brains are more important than feelings..Most of the girls think giving what guys want will make them appriciated when guys go like " god... look at that s**t".. But they never say that to her... To me, obvious beauty is the worst (not always).. I like girls who are beautiful enough to be called a cute girl and who are smart enough as it defines her whole behaviour...I deny the fact that every "hot" girl is dumb or set to lower standards of behaviour..But guys adore beautiful, smart girls.. It took me a few years to understand all these and now i'm in my mid 20's and i'm glad i have a crush on a beautiful (not "hot"), smart girl who can make me complete ( i hope she'll like me)..
2006-07-21 03:06:08 · answer #1 · answered by Teejay 5 · 4⤊ 0⤋
Beauty is only skin deep...ugly goes all the way through to the core... Beauty comes from the inside out. No, looks will only get you so far. Would you rather get a long way on your looks or your abilities? Abilities will take you alot further than looks ever will. Looks fade, your abilities won't. As for the guys who go after any hot girl they see...they are just immature. You don't need them anyway.
2006-07-21 02:15:44 · answer #2 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The guys you are noticing aren't worth the time of day. Being young, it's fun to chase attractive people, but in the long run, none of that matters.
You'll find with mature folks, you don't really judge how they look until you get to know their character. Initially average guys can become seriously attractive when you see their depth.
Looks, youth and chemistry fade. Character doesn't.
2006-07-21 02:13:52 · answer #3 · answered by Love2Sew 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Guys like to score the hot numbers but when they get ready to settle down, they're more interested in knowing what's inside the head and heart of the one they'll be with for the long haul.
2006-07-21 02:12:42 · answer #4 · answered by love2travel 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be practical, good looks are always a advantage, be a girl or boy.
Do not you select the best looking dress for you or select a gorgeous car or keep the best looking puppy as a pet.
This is our natural instinct to choose the best looking anything. So accept the real thing in life
2006-07-21 02:15:27 · answer #5 · answered by Kakaz 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Looks are everything. No matter what anyone says that is all that is important in life. I mean really how many people are attracted to a really really ugly female. Even if she is dirty filthy rich. Now a man can be ugly and rich and he could have all sorts of females hanging around him. Go figure.
2006-07-21 02:11:47 · answer #6 · answered by cherie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
A girl's looks are kinda like a movie. Pure entertainment, not real life. If a guy really wants a good relationship, he'll look inside, under the hood, kick the tires, etc. It's unfortunate, but maybe it's ok, since those superficial types deserve each other. I found mine... hope you find yours.
'nuff said?
2006-07-21 02:15:47 · answer #7 · answered by Mr. Peachy® 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
If you really think about this seriously, you´ll find out, that "men" are scoring hot girls like you say, but to get married, they NEVER choose them... to choose the girl of their dreams, to be his child´s mother they choose the intelligents, the sincere ones.
2006-07-21 02:13:35 · answer #8 · answered by Isadora 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
see everyvody in this world have to be different! its not possible
that everybody become hot and start lukin beautiful!
but yes dats true dat guyz or gurls hang out only with the ppl who act or behave lyk em! but put it the other way round do you think people who luk ugly(whateva u take dat meanin as) will ever be able to mingke well or feel comfortable with a gang of gurlz who are gud lukin and are hot??? no, dts bcause deyll automatically feel left out............... and do yu feel dat a sick lukin guys will ever get to hang out with those hot chicks dat dey see(probably only in their dreams) so if we see the ugly gulrs form deir own set of frndz who are lyk em(which is not less in no) and da sick guyz go propose to em ..........
so there is equality i mean youll get wat you deserve annd if you get more dat dat its not correct!!
but then again the character matters or comes in view only when you are geniunely in luv with sum1 and not for time pass
which hardly happens as far as ive noticed
2006-07-21 02:19:11 · answer #9 · answered by vbagdy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
only to people who are superficial.
(me)
Although I cannot STAND guys who are conceited an arrogant... their heads are way to far up their own asses.
There has to be *some* sort of attraction factor though...
2006-07-21 02:10:38 · answer #10 · answered by * 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋