I was talking to this guy, and I thought I could handle being in a relationship with him, but I couldnt becasue of the pressure, and I just wasnt on the maturity level. And u told this person you just wanted to be friends, becasue you didnt want them to get in any trouble, and you knew that it was wrong so did he. But he didnt care, he developed strong feelings for you, talking about he loves you, your the one he wants to be with. Should you just leave him alone forget about it, you told them how you feel and they still dont care. What should you do? What do you think about the situation?
2006-07-21 01:20:38 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Adolescent
He just wants sex. Really. Stay away.
2006-07-21 01:22:48 · answer #1 · answered by PoohP 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, it's obvious that you two don't have the same feelings, be blunt, tell him you don't want anything to do with him.
Don't let him change your mind. If he can manipulate you into doing what he wants now, it'll be like it either
a) until he gets fed up of you, or
b) forever because he'll think that you're a pushover who won't stick up for herself.
He doesn't love you, he just wants to brag about having a 16 year old girlfriend.
2006-07-21 01:39:39 · answer #2 · answered by ♥Pamela♥ 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tasha, are you just retarded? The guy is 21.
I agree with the first poster. All he wants is sex. Cut it off if you're not ready for a relationship, and don't be embarassed or ashamed of it. If he doesn't accept that you're not ready, then realisticly neither is he because a relationship isn't just one person. Simply stop contacting him and stop taking his calls, if he comes by your house, tell him you're busy or have your mother/father tell him you're busy, and so forth.
2006-07-21 01:26:17 · answer #3 · answered by sovereign_carrie 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hey if the guy really does love that girl he would respect the girl's decision and would be willing to wait for her till he's ready. as for the moment, if you're not yet ready to handle a relationship with this guy then i guess being just friends with him would go...
2006-07-21 01:23:55 · answer #4 · answered by DruNkStripPeR 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think that the longer your with him the more he will fall in love quite being crazy speak the truth tell him your true feeling maybe if he loves you and you love him yall can wait
2006-07-21 01:27:24 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
What?!!! You mean the boy is only FIVE???! Ok, that is wrong on so many levels, you need to get help and talk to his parents about what is going on.
2006-07-21 01:23:29 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
If you feel you aren't ready for this relationship, don't do it. I he "loves" you he will understand and not pressure you.
2006-07-21 01:23:43 · answer #7 · answered by anto 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Leave them grown men alone young lady!!!!
2006-07-21 02:28:40 · answer #8 · answered by Coast2CoastChat.com 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you are the only one that is in total control of your body
2006-07-21 01:26:45 · answer #9 · answered by norwood 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋