what is the best age to start avin kids?

Question

im 19 now 20 in october, iv been tryin for a baby for a year and alot of people have said im too young, what would you say?

Answer 1

you should start having children as soon as they are born.

the romans used to put newborn babies on roofs - especially if they were baby girls. this is not a recommended practice in child-care.

Answer 2

It's not the age. You have to be physically, mentally, emotionally AND financially ready to be a parent.

The reason why most people will say you're too young will probably be at 19 going 20, they feel you haven't enjoyed all the things that life can offer.

As a parent, your lifestyle will be quite hindered, specially during the first few years of the baby. Plus the emotional stress it can have on a young mother, if not young parents (sleep deprived nights, baby crying and you don't know why... you and your partner both getting short tempered with one another not realizing why). Parenting is a 24/7 job - no day off, no holidays.

When you're ready though, it will be all worth it!

Answer 3

I had my first at 19, although I married my babies father and we were mature enough then. It takes a strong person to have kids at such a young age. I was never a partier/drinker so it was easier for me to have that responsibility. Once you have a baby, keep in mind that you can no longer think of your needs first. This is a lifetime commitment and all your focus will need to be put forth into having your child grow into a someone to be proud of with the right values. Think really hard whether you are ready for this. Its also easier if you have someone that will support you in this. Good Luck....for me it was the best thing I have ever done.

Answer 4

age is not a sign of maturity, except in life experience but no matter how old you are nothing can prepare you for motherhood. if your relationship is stable and you have the financial means 20 is not too young an age.
I was 18 turning 19 when i had my son.. 4 and a bit years later, married to his father and pregnant again..
we are happy.
but back to you, i must stress aslong as the relationships solid, you are stable financially and you are good people (no drugs etc) then go for it, good luck!

Since when does age mean you'll be a better parent anyway, i know of shifty 30+ parents.

For the record - people under 18 should wait...

Answer 5

I had my first child when I was 17, way too young...Although I got married, it was difficult for both of us..You still have many years to do your own thing and have fun..We waited to have another baby when our son was 12, I was 29, I recommend you wait until you are at least 25-30, and are married....Being a parent is very rewarding, and difficult at the same time...Just give you and your baby the best life you possibly can, and WAIT...

Answer 6

You will know. I just hope you are married to the "father"? I am a young mother too and I'm married. Just be sure that is what you want now. It is a huge change but worth it. Make sure the dad will stand by you always.

Answer 7

most people 24 to 25

Answer 8

Age doesn't matter, ability does. If you have the ability to provide your child with everything it will need because you have a stable life, stable job, good health insurance, etc., then go for it.

Answer 9

I believe you are ready to have a baby when you are financially secure,and you have accomplished every thing that you need to give your baby a good life.example(house to live in,car to drive,a job,or a husband with a good job)This is when you are ready to have a baby.trust me life is less stressful when you are prepared.

Answer 10

Once you've learned to articulate yourself using the English language correctly.